....A certain girl and I were planning to be married. In fact I was planning to move to be with her ( about 600 miles away ) About Six months ago, she said she needed time and for me to wait a year ?!?...has not answered my mail or phone call...she is the love of my life........what to do?????????????
2006-06-12 10:38:37 · 13 answers · asked by Wilcam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry, but I really think you should move on with your life. Even if she does love you, she is just playing mind games with you. I'm sure the past year she has been with other guys. She just wants to know you are there if she can't find anyone else. Just move on, show her that if she wants you then she needs to do something about it and you won't wait around. Please take my advice or you will have a lonely life. And if you find another girl and start dating her and this other chick comes back. DO NOT TAKE HER BACK!!!! That would just tell her that you would drop anything for her. Loving someone that much is bad for you. Please take my advice!
2006-06-12 10:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by dohm84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW i dont know what i would do because i am madly in luv and plan to spend the rest of my life with the guy i am with. i think that she needs to realize that she has something wonderful. i mean not very many people(guys especially) would move to to be with the person they love especially that far. if you were planning to get married then she might have needed time to make sure she was doing the right thing. but if she is avoiding your phone calls maybe she is scared or has something she wants to tell you but dosen't know how. if you love her and dont want to lose her maybe you should give her a surprise visit and make sure she is ok. because who knows she might be testing you to see if your love is 100percent true! so prove it to her!
2006-06-12 10:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you poor sweetheart! Sounds like she is pulling away from you.
If you really love her, keep trying. She may be just experiencing cold feet and will get her head together and come back to a man who is obviously a terrific catch.
But don't wait forever. If she isn't smart enough to see what she has, some other girl will.
2006-06-12 10:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by fortressmystique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM SOOOO SORRY ! that is terrible but if she can do this to u then i think she doesn't deserve u .. I say u need to go out and have fun .. Try taking a girl out on a date or something see how u feel about it and then if that doesn't feel right keep tryin to get in contact with her ..
2006-06-12 10:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well has it been a year yet? if it hasn't then you'll have to be patient because she needs time now don't get your self gased up saying "i'll see her next year" but sometimes it gets tough in situations like yours maybe she's not ready for you to move in with her and get married and she's to......sad to tell you so she needs time so maybe she'll be ready then
2006-06-12 10:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jesseluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has to be reciprocal. Sounds like you may be into her more than she's into you. Let it go. If she truly cares for you, she will come to you. In the meantime, move on with your life.
2006-06-12 10:41:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times did you call her and stuff??? It sounds like she's fooling around. Maybe you should 'suprise' her and go down there to see what's up. Maybe that's what she wants.
2006-06-12 10:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by To sweet for 16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww, man, I hate it for you.... She's jerking you around.
I know that's hard to hear and to accept.
Pick yourself up and move on, guy.
2006-06-12 11:23:47 · answer #8 · answered by Cassor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP her. Hello, I am a girl and that is what I do when a ANNOYING boy keeps calling me.
2006-06-12 10:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by jrrphrmd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait and see what happends. Don't wait to long do.
2006-06-12 10:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋