i think my bf is cheating because he is acting mean. he never call me as soon as he get from "work" real late. He claims is sister was on his phone til about 3am. He get mad when I confront him and when I ask whats wrong he neva says anything.
2006-06-12 10:25:50 · 25 answers · asked by priceless 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
castrate him and then dump him
2006-06-12 10:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by Shea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he could be cheating then you should leave him. Rather or not he really is cheating. It means you don't have the trust you need for a good relationship. You should be able to say, "I know for 100% that my boyfriend/husband would never cheat on me" and if you know that then it means you trust him and he trusts you. That is what is needed to make a relationship work. Good luck!
Maybe you should also try to sit him down and talk to him about it. If he is not cheating them I'm sure he will do anything he can to help you realize how much he loves you. Of course if he gets mad at you then it is probable a sign that something is wrong.
2006-06-12 17:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by dohm84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, never assume when your guy is cheating. Because if he really isnt, that makes you look like an insecure ***** of a girlfriend. [which im sure you're not] The things you say he does would seem like he'd be cheating but things wont get better and you'll never know the truth unless you ask him. If you want it to work, tell him that you love him, and even if he is, you're willing to work it out. Then if he says that he has been you'll have to stick to your word and work it out. If he says no. Girl, you'll just have to believe him. Dont keep accusing him of this because it could cause some serious problems in your relationship and later you'll realize it wasnt even worth it.
2006-06-12 17:32:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you must talk to him. if you feel as though talking to him or at least trying isn't getting you anywhere then tell him that he is abusing your relationship. ask him if he wants to continue your relationship. if he says he doesn't care or says leave then he is cheating and then it would be beneficial to just leave him but if he cares about the relationship then he will care about your feelings and he'll try to make it work. just try a little harder but don't try to the point where you feel like you're being used. oh yeah and only do this if you really love him then otherwise you'll just be wasting your time.
2006-06-12 17:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by supergirl331117 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to the sister and ask her if she was on the phone till that late. Otherwise I would go with my gut feeling and let him go. Cause you deserve to be treated better than that.
2006-06-12 17:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by Hilary B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do really love him ,dont lsn to anybody show him that you really love him ,,buy him a giftes all da time tell him that you see him as a baby who really do need aloooooooot of care show him that no one in this world can love him more than you do and dont you ever ask him,if theres a nother,keep tellin' him that you trust him and you know that hes goin' through a hard time but hes da greatest man ever and he can solve his problems believe me this is your better way to get him back,treat him as a baby and im sure that hes gonna come back to you ,,make sure to let him see you in your greatest loks ,let him see how sexy you are ,go to da salon make anew look but make sure you'll loke better in that look not worst,o some shoppin' ..do you nails ....LOL
2006-06-12 17:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by lillyshamshom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he dosen't want to talk to you about this maybe you should give him an ultimatum. he obviously does not respect your feelings, and the 3 most important values in any relationship are #1-respect, #2-communication, #3-honesty...(try and find out his value system) these are the most important things in any relationship...good luck
2006-06-12 17:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by brettbrissaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then dump him, but get the facts straight first. If he's not telling you anything he's hiding something from you.
2006-06-12 17:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by Mandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, leave him its not worth your time, I have been there done that....if you want to avoid heart ache I would just find someone else.
if you want to talk let me know, and no im not GAY....not that theres anything wrong with it....I like helping other ppl if i can.
2006-06-12 17:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by got2know 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends....find out 4 sure it might be a mis understanding but if he is u kno him best hit him where it hurts... leave then rub it in when you have a new man
2006-06-12 17:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by Laurie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt want to communicate the leave him, someone else will appreciate every detail about you.
2006-06-12 17:30:35 · answer #11 · answered by stud989 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋