I just met a girl , well realy she is a waitres at a small dinner here in town. She asked me out on a date Hmmmm yup ! cute as a bug she is . Untill she told me her age , she is 24 . Any advice ? would help. why would some one so young and pretty want a older guy.
I hear all the young guys in the dinner talking about how hot she is, she could have her pick????????????????????
2006-06-12 10:22:27 · 21 answers · asked by antho2820 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude.......and your problem is???? Go for it !!! She is young, hot, and 24..........now, that's a NO-BRAINER! What time are you picking her up?? She sees you as strength, and stability. Have a great date! Let us know how it tured out!! Good Luck!!
2006-06-12 10:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I over heard a couple of guys talking the other day ( they appear to be in their mid 20's) But they were talking about older women and how they would rather have an older woman because the young girls are whiny and want everything their way etc.So if the majority of young males are going for the older woman.... only makes sense the young girls have to go for the older guys or be left to grow old alone?I think a younger man could be devoted to an older woman but I don't think a young girl would last too long in a relationship with an older man!When he wants to take a walk,she wants to dance!
2006-06-17 02:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's tired of the young immature guys.
She hates her job and wants to find a rich guy.
She' s looking for a father figure.
You don't look your age.
You're just nice especially to her. (Do you tip her well?)
She likes your car or style.
Your energies connected.
Really, you just never know why someone strikes an interest until you get to know a person.
I also think you should do a little soul searching and really ask if in the long run would a 20 year age difference would really work for you. Admit to yourself the truth.
It's great flattery but you could just take it as a compliment and move on to someone a bit closer in age, maybe in their 30s.
2006-06-12 17:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Fancy You 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be that she just finds you attractive. It may also be that she is one of those interested in a father figure or like the 20 somethings that go out with my dad (he's 58) they may be insecure & You represent a level of security they find attractive. As I am 39 I find this somewhat disconcerting, but then my sons find it disconcerting when their friends want to ask me out, lol. My oldest boys are 19 & 20 & my oldest is in his 2nd year of college. I did date a 27 year old for a while & he said he likes older women because they aren't so flighty & into drama plus they are more self reliant & established.
Kimberly
2006-06-13 16:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by kspersian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 9yrs younger than my bf i am 27 and he is 36. I have always been attracted to older men. Whats the use of being with a man that can't help you mentally and physically. And very important emotionally mature. That is what a mature young woman wants in her older man. It is not always not about the $ bill.
2006-06-12 17:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by destiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if thats is you in the picture, I cant blame her! very nice looking man! She might just be a very mature girl who knows what she wants. I always have went for the older men, as I see it. What you see is what you get. No changing. My husband is 15 yrs older than I. So go for it, if your okay with the age gap. Hold your head up high!! lol smiles
2006-06-14 12:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by baseballmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be cute and nice and funny. Since I'm going to be 45 in August.....You probably don't look your age at all. She might not even know. Maybe you're so great that she's picking you. It IS possible, y'know. Give it a shot, who knows what might happen?
2006-06-12 17:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe she has a taste to older men that or all she wants is some green. She's half you age. But hey just go and see what happens just be careful about your $$$.
2006-06-12 17:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by Mandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if that is you in your picture, you look to be very young and attractive. That is what she sees in you, probably nothing to do in age. Also girls are tired of the run around guys our age bring. knowing you are more established and confident makes you more attractive than the other riff raff in the place.
2006-06-12 17:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by bugjjo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
younger ladies look for wisdom father figue when there is not on e money if you have some you should pass if you have morals that could very well be your daughter and you would not like her going out with a old fart old mens dont want to hear nursey rhymes they want to tell bed times stories
2006-06-12 17:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋