2006-06-12 10:20:42 · 17 answers · asked by sweetnsalsy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, don't try. If you expect yourself to orgasm it will be harder to do. Just lay back and do what feels good, and eventually you'll learn how to get yourself off.
2006-06-12 10:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Faking it is the worst thing you can do. He can't help you if he doesn't know you're having a problem with it! Nothing is wrong with you. You know you're capable of having an orgasm. The majority of women need clitoral stimulation to get off and most positions don't allow that. I suggest being on top and rubbing it against him, or choosing a position that allows him (or you) to stimulate it. Or even use a vibrator during sex -- it'll be nice for both of you. Also... relax. Worrying, hiding it and feeling bad are just going to make it more difficult. Tell your boyfriend, stop faking it, and focus on enjoying yourself during sex, not about how you have to have an orgasm. That part will come naturally. Once you get it, I'm sure you'll be able to do it again. Easily.
2016-03-27 01:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has nothing to do with your spouse. it has something to do with the fact of your concentration when you're having sex. if you are stressed out or you have your mind on other things you will not achieve an orgasm. the next time you have sex, clear your mind and get rid of all your stresses. you should reach an orgasm. if that doesn't work then choose another lover or teach him. you both will appreciate it in the long run. good luck.
2006-06-12 10:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finger the g spot furiously (or use a g spot viberator), masterbate the clit fast at the same time (like rub a power viberator on your clit). Maybe have an object in your a-nus. You have to be horn*y in order for the orgasm to work, so you may want to incorporate goat weed. G spot is inside top wall of vagina.
2006-06-15 15:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably because you are trying too hard. Its something that just has to happen usually. If you can't have one at all, even by yourself, then it could be something physical. If it is just not being able to have one with someone else, chances are it is psychological.
2006-06-12 10:23:31 · answer #5 · answered by zw88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't inside, either. That's why DH does it manually and I have several every time. It's amazing!
2006-06-12 10:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to lovers lane and get the Mini-Bullet.. You'll blow in no time.
2006-06-12 10:21:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get yourself a strong vibrator....try it by yourself, be patient, relax and just enjoy!!
after you know what gets you going, you can tell your man.....ask him to play with you with the vibrator.........
so you can use it (get the smaller one) while having sex with him too...its great!
2006-06-12 10:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by casj2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one you are with does not know what he/she is doing
2006-06-12 10:22:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY FAKE IT. THATS CRAZY. KEEP TRYING YOU WILL KNOW IT WHEN IT HAPPENS. MAYBE YOUR TRYING TO HARD. JUST RELAX.
2006-06-12 10:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋