should you give her time before trying to communicate with her again or should you just try to get her back right away?
2006-06-12 10:17:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
both are ok. ^ ^
2006-06-12 10:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by S-MOMENT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-12 10:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by Don Ricardo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, happyscrappy why did you break up with her? I would call her soon, but not unless you have a good reason why you broke up and another good reason why she should trust you not to hurt her again. Don't break up just because you have a spat and are angry. If you don't get along usually, you are probably with the wrong person. Think about this before you call her, but don't wait too long. She may move on without you.
2006-06-12 10:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what the reason you broke up with her was. if she cheated on you or something like that, you dont deserve that kind of abuse and shouldn't go back to her. i think you should give it some time and then try to talk it over with her. but if whatever happens that caused you to break up occurs again, you need to break up and not go back to the relationship. sometimes even going back once is too much. there are other girls out there that deserve you more.
2006-06-12 10:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by wakmacbug4odey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should sort out your feelings and see if you like her or if it's just jealousy that you don't want her with anyone else. then once you figure that out then if your feelings say that you genuinely still have feelings for her then pursue her. tell her everything why you broke up with her, tell her you still want her. just be honest with her and get everything off of your chest and she'll appreciate that and if she still likes you then its a chance that you'll be back together by Friday, and getting it on like hot buttered popcorn(that was so corny but i have to bring it back to the ol skool era). good luck on your love endeavors.
2006-06-12 10:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should give her time i mean you just broke up with her so maybe you should leave her alone for a few days.....like maybe 2 or 3 then talk to her again and see how's everything is going for her and if she has another boyfreind already don't get jealous!
2006-06-12 10:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jesseluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long it's been from the day u broke up with her give it 3 days and if u still like her talk to her and jus make her notice u again.. Make her like u gaain the way u like her.
2006-06-12 10:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by nelo228458 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of the reason why there was a break up and go from there.
2006-06-12 10:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right away dont give her a chance to think that you dont care do stupid things ,we (da gurls ) like that ......walk around her and tell everybody in da street that you love her ,make her laugh,send her candies ,flowers,buy her an animal that she likes like a cat or a small dog
2006-06-12 10:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by lillyshamshom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably doesn't like you anymore. did you break up with her or did she break up with you? if you broke up with her, you are stupid and that was a stupid choice if you still liked her, if she broke up with you, she doesn't like you anymore and you are screwed. sorry. it happened to my friend. (she broke up with him) he is really sad and i'm the only person he talks to about it so whenever we talk on the phone, that is about all we talk about.
2006-06-12 10:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by m_rae0232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well give her time..b/c she might still might be upset that you broke up with her
2006-06-12 10:19:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋