U see My boyfriend wants to have sex and he asked me if i was ready but i don't know if i am ready yet
2006-06-12 10:14:58 · 15 answers · asked by vampirekity13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's totally up to you, If your not ready then don't do it just to please him, figure it out for yourself then let him know what YOUR going to do
2006-06-12 10:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by QUEEN OF LOS ANGELES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that you are not ready if he really cares about you and not just sex he will understand and not make you feel like you have to do something you don't want to,don't let him guilt trip you into it,don't fall for that old"If you really love me you would do it"trick,hes just trying to make you feel bad and do something you don't want to.
2006-06-12 17:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by Shea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure, then you aren't ready. Don't risk regretting later, just wait. Besides, you don't want your first time to happen just because he wanted it. Where's the romance in that?
2006-06-12 17:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by fruitnroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey plz dont do the mistake plz plz i beg you !!!! dont give ur delf to him unless you marry him coz tomorrow he may not marry you, dont do this its not good it will affect ur future avoid him just say i am not ready and i dont want it b4 marrage plz friend dont do it , dont go with him to lonly places where u may get tempted to have sex plz friend avoid having sex and if ur guy really loves you he will say it is fine and respect you even b4
2006-06-12 17:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by linda v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you feel uncomfortable that way. He should wait till you get ready, ok?
2006-06-12 17:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by lara23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not ready, then you are not ready. your b.f should not be pressuring you. he shouldnt even be asking that question. love making just happens....when both of you are ready....take your time....choose wisely.....is he worth it?? ask yourself those questions before you give him your most precious possesion.
2006-06-12 17:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by spoiled_angel80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say im just not ready and if hes a real gentalman he'll respect your request!!!
2006-06-12 17:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by cutie pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really don't wanna do it then don't and tell him that you don't and if he really loves you then he will probably respect it.
if he doesn't dump him then
2006-06-12 17:19:48 · answer #8 · answered by E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
said your moving to fast
2006-06-12 17:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him No!! If he objects and does it anyway, thats rape!
2006-06-12 17:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋