I have a friend that makes comments about the two of us screwing around (we aren't). He always sits by me if we go out to eat with other people. When my BF hugs me, he says that he is getting jealous. We were at a party and he went to the bathroom and wanted me to "hold it" for him. Is he just being crazy or do you think that he actually means something by all of this? I am confused. He is a hottie, so I don't mind....but I don't know what to do from this point.
2006-06-12 10:06:17 · 22 answers · asked by Angie S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just realized that I put BF and I meant my Best Friend. Who is male. Sorry about that. I am new to this whole abbreviation thing.
2006-06-12 11:06:37 · update #1
He's disguising his interest with jokes and gauging your reactions. If you play along, he'll go farther. If you show genuine interest, he might make a real play. Right now, he's on a fact-finding mission, you might say.
What you do from this point depends on whether you're interested in the guy. But... he sounds like he just wants you for sex, so proceed with your eyes open.
2006-06-12 10:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by BeenThere69 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he definetly means it. It seems like a joke because he is intentionally making it seem like that. You have a bf so in his mind it can only be half hearted. Also, the fact that you say he is a "hottie" means that in some respect you like him, something he has probably picked up on by now. I guess the way I see things, if you know this guy likes you and does these things and you still haven't made an effort to end or change your relationship with him, then you must like him too, maybe more than your current bf.
2006-06-12 17:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by zw88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either ask him to stop acting that way with you, ask him if he likes you, or just stop complaining about it. If he's a hottie and you don't mind, then what is the big deal? He probably likes you and if you like him, you should drop your bf and make it happen with this other guy.
2006-06-12 17:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by regifuller03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a seriuos talk with urfriend, and if he's serious then the 2 of u need 2 consider all the pro's and con's IF u get 2 gether and it doesn't work out. I mean will it hurt or help ur friendship either way it plays out, and is it worth it; jusy b true 2 urself if nobody else.
2006-06-12 17:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is joking like this he probably doesn't have a real thing for you, but just in case sit down and really talk to him about it, like adults. If you don't feel that way let him know without hurting his ego so you can try to salvage the friendship. If you are into him too, tell him to quit goofing off and give it a shot. Good luck!
2006-06-12 17:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things....First...you have a boyfriend already.. so what are you doing even CARING about what he thinks and means?
and second.. he can do anything he wants because he is a 'hottie'?? I DON'T THINK SO!
Girl you seriously need to get a grip.. do you NEED all that extra attention so much that you are willing to disrespect your boyfriend to get it? Because that is what you are doing. If you are so anxious for attention from any and all 'hotties' who happen to throw it your way, you have no business 'committing' yourself to a boyfriend.
2006-06-12 17:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy is just a crazy pervert who's got the hots for you. Or do you give him some hints that you're an item? Coz if the guy asked you to hold "it" for him, either you're very very close or just a maniacal pervert. Most likely it's the latter. Get rid of him. Avoid him. He'll just destroy you.
2006-06-12 17:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by judge_d'red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is flirting with you. If it doesn't bother you, flirt back. Just harmless fun, up to this point, but your boyfriend might get jealous if you continue. If the thought of that doesn't bother you, then have fun with the guy.......he is a "Hottie" after all.!
2006-06-12 17:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, a lot of guys are dogs and will have sex at any opportunity. Even hot guys. He is disrespecting you and your boyfriend. Unless you want a one night stand and risk being the talk of the town (YES, guys do talk especially the dogs who are just looking for conquests), keep a friendly distance.
2006-06-12 17:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if you have a BF it should bother you second of all by th sound of it he probably just wants to have sex and thats all so don't fall for it hottie or not.
2006-06-12 17:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by sixer_chick3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋