my boyfriend of 7months broke up with me because he accused me of flirting with other guys. i dont think i was. i want him back but he says we should just be friends now. what can i do to get over him?
2006-06-12 09:21:37 · 11 answers · asked by KAS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off if u have feelings for him still there's no way u can be friends jus yet. For one u're going 2 want him which will cause stress in the friendship.. If u really want to get over him, try hanging out wit ur friends or doing something 4 urself w/o worrying about him. U need to do something that's going to take ur mind off him. Shopping, local hangout where u're from, clubs.. Meet new ppl...
2006-06-12 09:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by ANC_40 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first stop talking about getting back together with him -to him
it's over --7 months isn't that long really when you think about how long life is --- even if you did get back with him it won't work out baby. it's over now let it go. do things for yourself that make you happy --get a tan - join a gym {lots of hotties} if you get back with this guy he will use you and damage you more than you know. you will be OK it just takes time you have to get out and hang out with your girls and do things that have a positive influence on your life. make yourself happy you don't need him and as long as you have him on your mind you will miss out on meeting a really good guy that makes you look back and say 'what did i ever see in my ex'?
you will get through this but stop talking to your ex so much you need to put some space between you even if you are friends....good luck .....you will be just fine in time
2006-06-12 16:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by paynesgray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...if you still have feeling for him you can't really get over him cause you still have a part of you that loves him. You really should just be friends or if you can try to be bf and gf and tell him the truth. If that doesn't work out jsut try to find someone else
2006-06-12 16:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says that you should just be friends... That means that he is already hooking up with someone else, or seriously wants to develop a prospect of hooking up with someone....
(Sorry.. but in this context, it is probably your best friend, or someone else close to you... hence, he wants to be "friends" to show what a stand up guy he is)
Forget about him. You might want to consider dating one of his good friends... to help you get over the pain..... Then, dump his friend too.. so they can sit around like losers thinking about you.
2006-06-12 16:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by Badspe11er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only way you'll forget about him is if you let the football team run the train on you at a party.
2006-06-12 16:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY KAS hunn love ya u gotta get ova him! u know im right too!i say go out with u know who and 4get about him! just remember im alwayz here 4 u! no matter what!
plus he is a big A&# hole! and a B@%#&! call me l8r hun love ya
-ur bestestest friend
2006-06-12 22:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by DJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont think about him as hard as it sounds to do just do it...hang out with friends...go meet other guys
2006-06-12 16:24:46 · answer #7 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hook up with somebody else. You'll never move on, unless you move on. With me. cheah!
anything else would be uncivilized
2006-06-12 16:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by marukus2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to fishing with old people
2006-06-12 16:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jubei 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flick the bean. and go get laid
2006-06-12 16:24:52 · answer #10 · answered by judas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋