I am single and hate it. I have got to the point where I just can't imagine finding the right man for me...

Question

I do know that I am fussy but I wondered that, if i think like this, will this mean I will never meet anyone?
Does thinking positive really get you results?

Answer 1

Absolutely, always think "positive"! You are going to meet a man worthy of you, and when you LEAST expect it too. Do not lower your standards. You have them high for a reason, and if you lower them, and find somebody today, what do you have? Certainly not what you want! There's a man in your near future "that is going to knock your socks off!" Be patient! Good Luck!!

Answer 2

You don't say how old you are but you sound very young. Whatever you do do not marry the first person who seems interested. Get to know someone first which means not living together just to find out if you're compatible. That never works.
You need to feel like a whole person before you think about marriage. Don't think you need someone else to feel whole. You must love yourself first.
I'm speaking from experience. Twice I settled for second best because I didn't feel I was worth more. I've been twice divorced.
One thing you should do is get into a good non-denominational church and join the youth program. You'll meet Godly boys ,hopefully, who will know how to treat a wife.
I'm pulling for you. Don't give up hope.
God bless you.
Mary

Answer 3

I'm sorry you feel so unhappy about this issue. I had a gal friend who set impossibly high standards for her "perfect guy" and couldn't figure out why she she never could find him.

Usually, a person knows when they've found the right match. You probably just haven't encountered him yet. However, you might try being a little less particular. Even if you don't find Mr. Right right away, you might meet some nice friends along the way.

Good luck

Answer 4

Sweetheart, we have all been there. You aren't the only one who has ever felt this way. I went for sooooo long without anyone special in my life. Then, I went on a love streak. And now, I've found the love of my life. It's just a low point that you have to go through. But in the end, you'll come out on top with a great guy beside you. It won't last forever, but it can take awhile before you find your Mr. Right. Just remember, don't go looking for love, let love find you. It turns out in the most beautiful way when you let it happen naturally. Good luck and God bless. Muh love hun!!

Answer 5

yes thinking positive will make you feel better and not so down if you don't have anyone. You just have to wait for the right time when you find a man. Besides, if you like anyone already start a relationship as a friend and then try to get better and be more closer.

Answer 6

Keep being fussy or you will be unhappy.
You'll find your man because if you really want happiness you'll get it.
The key word is generosity, as long as you're generous you can be as fussy as you want, and the right man will notice you ;)

Answer 7

We all have gone through our dry periods in dating and relationships and had the same thoughts but ultimately love does exist and you will find someone. I don't know if it requires positive thinking so much as a willingness not to give up and to take chances.

Answer 8

You have to be fussy, if you want something that will last. It's never too late to find happiness. How old are you anyway?

Answer 9

Continue to be fussy, it's sexy! Also be positive because it does bring results. Cool!

Answer 10

Nope, you got to turn that positive thinking into positive action and recognize which men that it attracts can best compliment your efforts toward a positive direction....that person who best fits such a task would be Mr Right....be patient..and don't give up on yourself.