Ok, I met this guy about 2 weeks ago, and I don't really believe in love at first sight but right now, I'm not so sure. I really like him and he likes me, but yesterday he had to move to Missouri and it really sucks. We don't get to talk as much becaise his phone doesn't get service down there. I don't want to get over him but I don't want to get hurt again either. Plus, another problem is this guy that likes me a lot but I don't feel the same towards...he fights with me all the time about the other guy because it hurts him to know that I like the other guy better. I don't know what to do or say to either of them.
2006-06-12 08:55:11 · 8 answers · asked by IndiHippi 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well.. first of all you shouldn't care about what they have to offer you .. u can find guys able to love you properly everywhere.. you already found two of them. it's all about you: what do you want? and from whom do you want what you want. i have a boyfriend which i really love. we're together since Feb last year but these last 8 months we saw each other rarely because he is going to uni in another town.. a 200 km far-away town. i'm still in high school.. well was. i'll have my final next week. anyway the point is that we're having a really rough time. the only way we can communicate is by phone and internet. we see each other once a week/2 weeks. it is so hard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! don't do this if you are not sure u love the guy!! u have no idea how hard it gets.. u start fighting over nothing because both of you are grumpy from missing each other and SO ON.. my love for him and his love for me is like.. as big as the universe. that's the only reason why we stayed together through this situation. pls take time for yourself and start thinking what you really want. it's not worth suffering if you are not SURE u love the guy, and it's not worth making the other guy suffer if you don't even like him. it might sound harsh but: find someone else!
don't joke around with these things.
2006-06-12 09:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by Julia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok the guy that moved first.try to communicate with him as a friend.do not expect anything or buy his promises, until he moves in your state and you guys can talk and communicate watch your heart.this other guy that likes you don't tell him everything even though he is your friend you are just stabbing him in the heart even more.
2006-06-12 16:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by Amry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can personally tell you long distance relationships dont work or last. As for this other guy dump him and ignore him if all he wants to do is fight you need to be happy not miserable.
2006-06-12 15:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by wireland2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that you need to cut the nice guy due to your current location and leave the jerk there are so many fish in the sea, don't get caught up on one guy
2006-06-12 16:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by joe r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky you. Go out with the guy that likes you and maybe he'll start liking you!
2006-06-12 15:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to become another victim to his insecurity. or yours.
2006-06-12 15:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds rough
2006-06-12 15:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do have a problem
2006-06-12 15:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by cowsformeatandmilk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋