I consider myself to be a decent "nice" guy (friendly, outgoing, etc.) I'm not soft or wimpy...........I'm into the romance thing and the whole 9 .....and I would like to date more in my city. I really think the problem is me sometimes. I'm low-key but not boring. I'm not a bad looking guy, either. I take care of myself and I treat a woman with respect.
Can you give me some tell-tale signs when a woman is interested ? Does a guy necessarily need "GAME" to get noticed ?
Your comments are most welcome :)
Thanks --
Sincero.
2006-06-12 08:48:22 · 23 answers · asked by Sincero 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well being able to listen to a women is really nice and comforting. Just listening to what she has to say, being there for her, understanding her.
Having "game" is not something a guy has to do to get noticed. I think just being yourself will attract a girl that is looking for someone like yourself.
So yea, hopefully that answered your question.
If a girl really likes you, than she will flirt w/ you alot, she will come closer to you when you guys are talking, she will look deep in to your eyes, and if she wants to kiss you, shell look at your lips than in your eyes.
Shell want to go out with you more, shell want to be around you more.
Some tips...
Listen to your gf, try to understand her, dont control her. Be there for her no matter what.
1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out
2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.
3. Hug her from behind (we love this)
4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
5. Wrestle with her :)
6. Don't go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.
7.If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.
8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"
9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.
10. Play with her hair.
11. Pick her up (she loves it)
12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it
13. Make her laugh
14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.
15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.
16. If you care about her, then TELL HER
17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).
18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.
19. Look her in the eyes and smile.
20. Hang out with her on weekends
21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)
22. Kiss her just for the heck of it
23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.
24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if
its simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.
25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)
26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.
27. Give her what she wants
28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.
29. tell her shes beautiful... not hott
30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time
31. If u care about her...SHOW her
2006-06-12 08:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by Happily Married 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You most defiantly don't need "game." One big thing is be yourself. I know, I know you hear it all the time but it's true.
To tell when I woman is interested? Well it depends on the girl. Some (depending on age too) if they are young get really giggly and almost will laugh at you. If they are mature they might flirt a little or do nothing at all. It's really hard to tell sometimes. One thing I want to tell you is when you do meet a girl you like and do get that date please don't brag yourself up. What I mean is don't tell her I've slept with this girl and that girl, and that girl wanted me and all that stuff. It will end up backfiring. I'm not saying you would do that but just in case. HUGE turn off.
Good Luck that girl is probably just around the corner :)
2006-06-12 15:56:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real women don't like games darlin... Just be yourself, you sound interesting from what you've written here. You would be amazed at how "sexy" just being confident in who you are can be to some women.
Low-key is good too...not every woman wants to date some loud, obnoxious "prick" that's the life of the party.
You already have "romance" as a favorable trait. I mean, what woman doesn't want to be with a romantic guy? Hang in there, you'll be fine...
2006-06-12 15:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by shopgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, forget games. Most women hate that. Just be yourself. You seem like a really nice person if a little shy. When a woman is interested in a man she can give off so many subtle signs, like she blushes when you look at her or catch her staring at you. She will try to get close to you by walking close by or joining the line behind you or sitting at the table with you. There's body language in that she will try subtle thing to get your attention like lick her lips, fingers or flip her hair. There are so many, of course there are different kinds of women so signs are different. Don't worry you'll find 'her' eventually.
2006-06-12 15:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by dsd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the whole thing about "if you want something be patient and let it come to you" is a bunch of bull! Get out there and find a nice girl that complements your style and personality! Believe me if you are the respectable young man that you say you are not many women will be able to say no to you!
2006-06-12 15:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by Chocolate Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. that is a tough question..Because of Aids and other diseases going around. I do not know if someone is interested. They can be nice and talkative and just want to be friends...She would have to say.."hey why don't we meet for coffee sometime?''Then you still don't know...Only if you guys keep seeing each other....sorry, but it is a long process. Most women i know "HATE" PLAYING MEAN GAMES ON OTHERS! NO GAME to get noticed.
2006-06-12 15:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married now, but when I was dating I liked the guys that didn't stand out in the crowd. The quiet, calm ones. They had to be attractive in some way of course. but the ones that know everyone and loves a lot of attention, I avoided. I didn't want to feel like I had to compete with everyone else.
As far when you know she's interested....ask her.
2006-06-12 15:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by kiss me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you sound like a guy alot of girls would love to date. you know they are interested when they spend time with you or seem into a conversation. if she wants to be with you, she is interested. if she does anything to see you, she wants to be with you. just turn on ur charm, open a few doors for them, buy them a drink or two or take them to breakfast, lunch, whatever, and see if she wants to see you again, and if so, SHE LIKES YOU, mkay? just remember, open doors, take her jacket if she has one, and do anything to make her feel special (and dont stop just because she said yes to a second date). good luck and i hope you find a great girl that will appreciate you.
2006-06-12 16:16:49 · answer #8 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a girl is interested she will first test u..like seeing how u respect yor mom(it's tru),or how u speak about yor past girlfrnz(i.e. do u respct them??)
She will smile a lot & wud xpct you2 understand the rest (i know it's difficult2 kno what's in a woman's heart but that's how it is)..
If she depends on you then again she likes u..
girls surely love2 b flattered, so jst keep on makin them fly with yor compliments!!STOP WORRYIN.
all the best!!
2006-06-12 15:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by dincpurple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
juss give a woman a compliment and common courtesy and i'm sure u'll do fine. u say u're a nice guy and respectful so u should have no problem gettin a girl.. good luck hun!
2006-06-12 15:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by angelchic1706 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋