2006-06-12 08:40:00 · 7 answers · asked by joe r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, from my experience quite often it does. It really just depends on how things end. In other words, you end things on good terms with each other, the better the chances of still being friends in the end. It just takes a little effort by everyone.
2006-06-12 08:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends which relationship u talking 'bout. If u mean the friendship-relationship then the answer is yes & no. Reason is, if u were frndz first then decided to be lovers u become insecure of the little things u used to do around eachother and u might prefer not to do them in front of each other. Then next thing u knw, she's insecure and then u have problems. Next thing u don't trust eachother in all terms, friends wise and couple wise. Then THAT destroys the relationship. BOTH relationship.
But on the good side:
thing might not turn out that way becoz u guys now eachother so well that u might think that GOD really sent this beautiful gorgeous smart women to u, who understand u and can take in ur different personalities coz she's already used to them. No point in trying to convince her on that. She'll love u, obviously, conditionally and unconditionally.
My advice:
take it slow. If problems ever occure try to solve them w/out throwing fitss and cuss words to eachother. Love her, and make her blive that ur past gf don't mean much to u, like b4, as much as she mean to her. TAKE IT SLOW
good luck!!
2006-06-12 08:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by Briana B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no it doesn't have to kill the frienship. you can just seperate the two from the other. i think its great when a couple are friends and can act as such.
i mean when i'm with my boyfriend, i treat him as a friend all the time, i mean we say we love each other and get all cute too, but i talk to him like a friend.
i tell him, what i think about a certain guy, if i think he's cute or not, and he just laughs at me and then makes a comment on how a cute of another girl is.
but we both know its nothing serious, were just comfortable enough around each other to talk like were friends.
if your confident enough in your relationship, you can be friends and lovers at the sametime.
2006-06-12 08:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by midwestsweetheart2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More often than not if the b/f-g/f relationship ends it is hard to just go back to being just "friends." They dynamic has changed too much for that in most cases.
2006-06-12 08:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by bigrob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah usually there is no going back, but it all depends on how long you date and all the other factors.
2006-06-12 08:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by The Mullet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it can but it does not have to. you have to move really smoothly and talk about things like you did before so that everything stay cool
2006-06-12 09:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by texasgirl5454312 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't have to, but often it does.
2006-06-12 08:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋