I go out on dates all the time and have plenty of companionship. Yet, I am not attracted to any of the women I date or hang out with.
With every woman I date, by the third date I feel tired and completely unattracted to them. I don't think my standards are too high, I just get so turned off by them. I have explored the idea of going gay, but I just don't think it's for me - I love women, I just can't get attracted to any of them I meet.
After every date I feel so lonely, like I'm missing somebody terribly, but I can't think of who it is that I miss, or what it is.
Does anybody else feel this way? Or what advice do you have for me?
2006-06-12 07:52:03 · 7 answers · asked by Jeff 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think It's totally okay that you feel this way and I completely understand because I used to feel like that. The way you feel could be caused by one of two things. You actually may be questioning your sexuality(which is totally okay) and it might benefit you to go to GLBTQ(Gay,Lesbian,Bi,Transexual,and Questioning) meeting it may help you figure yourself out a little bit. Another reson might be taht you haven't met the right person for you and that's fine some people find love sooner or later than others and when the time is right for you you will too. In the mean time find someone to talk to or something you can do to keep your mind off being lonely if it helps I'll be willing to talk to you if you want but just try to occupy yourself for now! Your time will come! Good Luck Best Wishes ;)
2006-06-12 08:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by Bri 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should try the gay side of life maybe Ur just curious and not willing to admit it but if some woman are dull trying going out with the opposite of what u are that might bring some excitement in Ur life
2006-06-12 14:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by yayo_upin_disbitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you need a more exciting person who is unpredictable and always wants to do something someone that u will never get tired of but if that doesn't work well maybe you are gay
2006-06-12 14:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by HOT LINN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's probably because it seems so shallow and you aren't emotionally involved at all. make friends with some girls first and spend more and more time with them and i bet you'll experience more attraction than you did on those dates.
2006-06-12 14:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say if really look like that dog in that picture,then you had your answer years ago.
2006-06-12 15:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by cupkeasy 2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK U R TURNING GAY AND PROBABLY MISSING UR DAD TOO MUCH...LOLZ
2006-06-12 14:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go hang out at a public mensroom, then all will be well
2006-06-12 14:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by james b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋