2006-06-12 07:47:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmmm....that's a hard one in a way because it would depend on whether or not you were VERY SURE that that is what she's trying to do....I guess if she was being blatant about it, I would have a talk with the boyfriend and see if he couldn't possibly talk to her and let her know that he's simply IS NOT available...he's with the one he loves but if this is something he won't go for..I say..tell her yourself....you don't have to be overly overbearing or mean about it ..just let her know that your not giving your man up and that there are names for women like her that try to steal someone else's man.....slut.....pure and simple....let her go for someone who isn't in a relationship at the moment...there are plenty of men out there like that....but of course it's not entirely her fault either especially if she's flaunting it and your man is simply going along with it....he needs to be sat down and you need to have a heart to heart with him...letting him know how badly this makes you feel and how would he like it if you had some guy all over you and your were just going right along with it?? Honesty is the best thing in a situation like this...your boyfriend needs to be a part of the discussion and decision because all three of you are involved.
Good Luck!
2006-06-12 08:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I look at it this way, if she can steal him, she can have him. Why does everyone blame the "other woman"? The man has as much to do with it as she does. If he will mess with her, he will mess with someone else too. If he isn't strong enough to back off and ignore her, get rid of him.
2006-06-12 07:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her woman to woman and tell her to back off. Oh and if my man had no problem with it and the woman was doing things unapporiately then i would probably say be with her and tell the woman that she can have him
2006-06-12 07:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by gentlgodis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do NOTHING!!!!!! though it would be hard, it would have to be done. If he goeas to her you need to question how serious he was about you and if he doesn't he may be worth keeping around. Use the situation to see how serious your man is because when the girl's gone you still have to deal with him. Just keep your eyes open to see how he'll react to thing, not you.
2006-06-12 07:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by shaunese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, if he is suppose to be my man and suppose to love me, then he would handle it like a man and it would not resort to me beating a H O E's A S S!
2006-06-12 08:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by Kahmmillion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is just trying flaunt ur relationship in front of her let her see how happy the both of u are that would drive her nuts and if that dont work i would not saying u should but i would woop her asss
2006-06-12 07:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by yayo_upin_disbitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her but also find a way to make it blatantly obvious you are more fabulous than she could ever dream of being. Do not let her think she intimidates you.
2006-06-12 07:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he worth it to hold and cherish to your dying days?? If not, than let the other woman have him ... they both deserve each other!!
2006-06-12 07:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by bufanna2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants her, he will leave weather you fight all day and all night.
If it was meant to be it will be, no need in worrying cuz like I said if he wants to be with her he is going to leave you and if he doesn't want to leave you, and still wants her he'll cheat!
2006-06-12 08:55:08 · answer #9 · answered by ronce_1118 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that my man should talk to her and stop it.. not me..
2006-06-12 07:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by katyastan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋