my mom won't let me wear a biniki, she won't let me go to a high school I want to go just because they support gay people and she won't let me read Teen Vouge only Christain magazines and i almost 15. What should I do?
2006-06-12 07:47:04 · 7 answers · asked by dramamgurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Please remember that you are everything to your mom- and will always be her little girl- Talk to her and tell her how you feel- she just wants the best for you- maybe she doesn't want you to grow up too fast- our society is always pushing for that- show her you can be trusted- one step at a time.
2006-06-12 07:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by justamom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she is obviously really strict cuz shes cares about u and is being really overprotective, but it kinda seems like it might be a religious kinda thing, maybe she wants to u keep ur faith in christianity cuz like 1. she wont let u wear a bikini probably cuz it has something to do w/ religion like maybe ur religion prohibits u from wearing clothes like that, 2. she wont let u join a high skool cuz of the gay/straight alliance...again with the religion thingy maybe like ur religion doesnt accept gay ppl so she dont want u to be around them, and 3. she wont let u read teen vogue and makes u read christian magz so she probably thinks that teen vogue wil influence u to do things that go against ur religion.
try to talk to her bout it in private. tell her how u dont think its fair that shes treating u this way. u shuld be able to make ur own choices in life cuz she wont always be there for u like she is now. so try to tell her how it makes u feel. im sure shell want to noe no matter how shes gonna feel afterwards.
good luck
2006-06-12 15:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by michelleee♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your mom wants to shelter you. That's good...it shows she loves you and cares about you. However, that can backfire. It seems as if she might need to loosen the reigns, and give you some space to find out who you are as a person. If not, she risks alienating you..and that hurts everyone.
I have a suggestion. Could you send her this question and answer? Maybe it would help if she got some different perspectives. If my daughter felt stifled by me, I would want to know about it.
Hope this helps. Take care.
2006-06-12 14:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Toolooroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in that same boat. my mom is very strict, and we never got along. i think you should sit down and talk to her about how you feel. not that you completely support gays, but emphasize other things that the school offers. show her that you can be trusted and that you have your own opinions and a say about your life, but that you do understand her reasonings as well.
2006-06-12 14:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's just worried, and wants to protect you just be patient and understanding alot of the things she is doing is probably experience and just wants to protect you. But dont be afraid to talk to her about everything. She needs to know how you feel about things to.
2006-06-12 14:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by jojoB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your responsible show her or just TELL her and may by she'll reduce some of the limitations
2006-06-12 15:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by sexmaster AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that your 15 not 5 if she does not lisen just do it
2006-06-12 15:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by boys_sex_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋