im light skinned,long hair,and a great personality
and i still have trouble finding a guy
2006-06-12 07:38:01 · 13 answers · asked by ariel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get this straight- U r not getting a bf SIMPLY BEC U R HUNTING TOO EAGERLY FOR 1! Trust me, there is more to life than getting a bf. Do what u r supposed to do at ur age. When the right guy comes along u won't have to chase after him, u 2 will merge like river & ocean. BEST OF LUCK!
2006-06-12 07:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, maybe you are trying too hard? You need to go out a lot and mix with the kind of people you like to be with and then it will happen one day! You have a nice personality which guys will notice. Finding the right guy is going to take time. If you skip all the mediocre guys you will be saving yourself a lot of heartache. There is someone for everyone, believe me. I am sure you will let us know how you get on!
2006-06-12 07:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by Modern Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember; it's never your physical apperance, but your personality that matters. Those guys who are looking for romantic partners with beautiful, or attractive looks, aren't really serious about romantic relationships, aren't mature enough or aren't ready yet for a SERIOUS romantic relationship. Wait until someone will come up, or maybe it's YOU who should take on the initiative. (if I just think about myself...I would never ever dare to take initiatives on this field, as for I'm too shy to do so) Also BE VERY VERY CAREFUL ABOUT ONLINE DATING, as for you can never know who you're really talking to. The problem is that you don't have enough self confidence about yourself. I'm walking in the same shues as you do. :) Look into the mirror. I'm sure you look beautiful. At least the way you described yourself, I think you should be. Believe me. The problem with online dating often is, that if someone doesn't reply your mails, it only increases your lack of self confidence, just like it happened to me. On the other hand you can never know if the person you have contacted really looks and behaves the way he says so. Try to go to churches, libraries, exhibitions, cultural events, or try to talk to someone whom you meet with personally and find sympathetic. If you need any help or advices (even thouth I'm also single and have never ever had any romantic relationships before I have to tell you that-I'm a bit shy- I would be happy to give you strength online, or give you -hopefully- useful advices. Also if you feel like you need someone to talk to, I'm here. My MSN is ati_barsony@yahoo.com Have more courage, and self confidence! Good luck with your soul mate search! *Attila
2006-06-12 07:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by seafish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, guys want girls who'll tease them into thinking they'll get some. It's unfortunate, but that's what all guys want....initially. I never gave off that vibe either. but then I got one, when I least expected it, and I made sure he knew he wasn't getting any until he knew me first. Well, I wasn't very confident either(still arent), but with his constant compliments(every day), every now and then(who knows why), I do get hit on by guys, but i'm too monogamous, and I like my guy. U'll find a guy, just give it time...if ur anything like me, just when u don't want one anymore, one will wear u down, and u'll be glad he did.
2006-06-12 07:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having trouble finding a guy, well i too am having trouble trying to find a girl. It sucks to be alone, especially if its been for nine years. wish i could help, but i dont have any experience.
2006-06-12 07:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by theone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your personality isn't as great as you think it is...
And TRUE men aren't interested in looks. Are you too chatty? Are you too open? Some men find this uncomfortable. Try getting closer to more guys, as friends. Then see what gets on their nerves and what doesn't.
2006-06-12 07:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by Zombie Squee.™ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem i think when u go to college there will be wider options. u can try to go out more try places that u don't live by cause u can meet someone out the area that doesn't go to ur school maybe the problem is the person u need to find is not near you
2006-06-12 07:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think a man is looking just for your looks then sweety your kidding yourself grow up and come back when you really know what you want in a relationship and remember you get what you ask for. P.S. MAYBE IF YOU DID NOT THINK OF YOURSELF IN LOOKS TERMS, AND JUST MAYBE TALK ABOUT YOUR QUALITIES AND WHAT YOU LIKE AND DO MAYBE YOU WILL GET NOTICED LOOKS ARE NOT WHAT ALWAYS WORKS
2006-06-12 08:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to wait, it's different for different people, you might not find you guy till collage, you never know just be pateint.
2006-06-12 07:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by Tcg_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u want we could get 2 know each other better just e-mail me righ now and we can cuz u sound like a good person
2006-06-12 07:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by chucky_kills_you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋