This may sound weird, plz help if possible.my grandma had alzeimers my aunt took care of her, she died?

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well my grandma passed away and my aunt now lives off of my grandma's money. supossivley there was no funeral, we havnt haerd anything about it!!! then my aunt comes up from where her and my grandma lived in california and all she's got to give us of our grandmas stuff were about 7 pictures in frames!! None even of my grandma!!!!!!!!!!! growing up we collected alot of nice things with our grandma and that was all we had from the memory of her?!?!?!?!?If someone knows who i should contact in california about my aunt living off her money or even someone about her funeral if anything. we never saw a will, the property they owned( grandma and grandpa) and no funeral not even on tape

So the thing is, is that im not sure if my aunt was able to gain power of attorny or not. Would my chances be slim to nothing if she had gained that. My grandma died misseribly, she would always call my mom in the middle of the night and be whispering, saying," please come and get me and take me home, I want to be with you where my real home is and where I should be, I promise i'll be good, I wont do anything wrong or bad!!" My mother is sooooo disgusted with my aunt and how my aunt can seem to live her life everyday knowing that all this has gone on!! My grandma had 5 boys and 2 girls. girls obviously being my mother and my aunt. Well come to find out, My aunt wasnt really born to my grandma, she is adopted and has NO idea. Her father(my moms and her dad ) is not even her real father and she has still not been informed that her father is a mexican immigrant instead of the father she believes is hers!! My grandmother hasnt even been close with any of the grandkids!! AT ALL.

My granmother was(will always be) my best friend and I miss her terribly. On that same note, I was never able to say goodbye and am not able to have any of her memories to moarn over. My mother has myself as well as my younger sister, and as we grew up we together along with my grandma collected alot of things. little nick nacks like beenie babies, and figurines and other little silly things, but when it comes down to it they were way more than just silly because now that would be all of her that we have left besides what part of her we have in our hearts...And to only think that we dont even have any of that makes me sick!!! In the spot where we kept all our collectibles my grandma also had placed some pictures of my younger sister and I in picture frames as well, out of ALL of my granma's belongings...might I say ALL again, we had gotten maybe about 7 pictures in frames,a poem my mom had published in the newspaper for mothers day a decade ago, and a strip of pictures of our

Of our last christmas with them( my grandma and grandpa, her second husband ) Might I very angerily add that those 7 pictures and poem were all things minus any pictures of my GRANDMA herself. She was not in not one of those. Thats all we got. God forgive me for saying, and this may sound very materialistic, but has nothing to do with that,but This is the principal about it all, my grandma had beautiful jewlrey, nice household items, and thats not even begining to be able to mention. She had her whole life, and my sister and myself arent able to carry on in any type of a way, any part of her?!?!?! how does that seem logical?? May she rest in peace, but she would be turning in her grave right now!! Exuse my language but hell, We have no idea if she was even burried?!?!? My mom was given her will by my grandma herself years ago, My mom just packed it in the attic and just never looked at it. well I now have been in the attic for days, looking for it. There has to be something that can

make this right and serve justice!!! Once my aunt took her to california to live, which, on that note what happened to my grandmas modular home she had in yakima?!?!? My aunt sell it? Well I wouldnt be suprissed. Money, Is all it took. How do you say that ol' saying ?" If my aunt could squeeze blood out of a turnip she would!!" What happened to my grandmas car?? Once they moved to california, My grandma wouldnt even stay in the same room as my aunt's new hubby. Wonder what thats about huh? Same with me. The last visit and only visit that was made coming up here with my grandma, My mother said that the moment she kissed my grandma goodbye, she knew she wasnt going to see my grandma alive.She said right then my grandma knew as well. My sister then went back to cali with them to stay for the summer and told us that they were on the way down there and went to stop at a rest home for a little sleep, Meaning all in the car laying heads on eachothers shoulders, and my younger sister said

she woke up and seen my grandma was laying there scared as **** with her eyes open not knowing where the hell she was. my sister said that she ended up staying there all night and my aunt was able to live with herself after letting that happen!?!??! the thought of that makes me cold and hurt. With my grandma having alzheimers I couldnt even imagine the thoughts she was having at the time that all that had happened.I want to resolve this and feel content with my grandma being gone physically and only in our hearts. plz anyone HELP if you are able to. Thank you all so much already for the help you have given

Answer 1

You need legal help, did your grandmother give your aunt power of attorney over her actions? Best get legal advice asap.

Answer 2

Definitely, check into it. A lot of scenarios could exist. Did she have a will? Was the aunt Power of Attorney? She could have gotten persmission and used all resources...sounds fishy. Check with a lawyer, and then find out about California's legal issues. Good luck.

Answer 3

You need to get a lawyer and have him look into your Grandmother's estate. If she left a will or not, if she gave your Aunt power of attorney or if she set any plans in actions for your Aunt to comply with on her behalf. I am very sorry that your family was left out of any part of her death, its very hard to grieve with all this left up in the air. Try to get these answers before you or your family choose to judge her.

Answer 4

I was once very sorry to learn this and my ideas are with either one of you. I do not fairly recognise Wispy, however your middle felt tribute to her makes it consider like we've all will have to have performed. I can not assume the bravery with which she ought to had been dealing with those final few days. I can guarantee you that you're going to have made this time very so much brighter for her, and you do not must worry some thing you have got stated ago. No one could fairly be driven by way of into one more ideology in the way in which you worry. If she allowed you to advisor her religion again closer to Catholicism it was once since a facet of her desired you to. I'm ex LDS myself and those aren't humans who difference religion on a whim. If she was once capable to shift perception, she could have critically tested herself earlier than doing so. Death is regularly going to consider mindless and infuriating for the ones left at the back of whether or not we've religion or doubt. All the conversations we will be able to not ever have, the entire locations we will be able to not ever talk over with in combination, the entire new matters that may not be shared. It's not ever going to be effortless to manage. For what it is valued at I wish this isn't her final day, but when matters are turning for the worst, she is going to depart us understanding how foremost and distinct your private connection was once, and ultimately, to grasp that we have been cared for is possibly essentially the most any people can finally ask for whilst our time comes.

Answer 5

you can actually go to the county clerk's office in the county where she lived and get a copy of the death certificate--which shows what funeral home they used. And, you can ask to see what administration papers were filed with the estate. Good luck!

Answer 6

Ooo girl you need to cantact a lawyer. This may sound wrong, but you can sue your aunt for what she is doing.

Answer 7

call a lawyer in your area and see if they can give you any kind of help because that aunt just shafted everyone