we argue when we talk on the phone
i think he wants to take the relationship further and i dont want to
He always talks how my bestfriend is sleeping with her boyfriend and how he is jealous so i do not know what to do we dont even hardly talk on the phone and we never see each other and we have been togather for 4 months and he has never spent any money on me i am not saying he has to spend it all but a little at least am i wrong what should i do
2006-06-12 07:17:45 · 14 answers · asked by teenchicky172007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to your boyfriend about your feelings before dumping him.....maybe if you brought things to attention , he would work on things that make you unhappy...but if arguments continue, you should move on because eventially you will probably dump him. The longer you stay in relationship, the harder the break-up...so talk to him right away so that you'll know your decision....Good Luck!!
2006-06-12 07:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by vickififi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i know what is like to not expend time whith the one you love. And a relationship on the phone is so diferent that when u have that person next to you. I'll bet you won't fight that much. But is he is pressuring u for something u r not ready for, u need to be careful of his intetions with u. 4 months it's too soon to start a phisycal relationship.
2006-06-12 14:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by bibibi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound worth it to me. Not about the money part as there could be financial problems/reasons for that but the rest of it, if you argue all the time, that's too stressful. I've been married a very long time and we don't argue much.
2006-06-12 14:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u guys care for each other then you guys will work things out all the way. dont dump him if you still care for him. If he cares for you then he will do what you want just to make you happy. talk things out instead just trying 2 do the same routine u probly do over n over again whn u 2 fight. tell me how it goes. if he doesnt follow you then well, you should realy dump him.
2006-06-12 14:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by ♥uR mY eVeRyThInG♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are 2 ways to look at things. certain people are so madly love with each other they go to the extent of hurting each other before they hold each other. the other way, is, dump him.but i woud advice you to dump him since it doesn't workout in the long run.
2006-06-12 14:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by onlyajith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think it's time for you to talk to your boyfriend and talk to him and and tell him if we are going to argue all of the time then we shouldnt be in a relationship any more. and then see how things go from there.
2006-06-12 14:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by sweetangelsidekick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should dump him because you can find another guy who has a lot more in common with you. And you can quit wasting your time with him.
2006-06-12 14:24:47 · answer #7 · answered by blessed_in07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing in common I would end it why r u still with him. Move on maybe he will find someone else
2006-06-12 14:21:22 · answer #8 · answered by covergirl1303 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it is time to move on
2006-06-12 14:20:31 · answer #9 · answered by sweetblonde 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch out if all you do is fight wheres the make up ugh do you even fight for a reason or just to bicker at one another
2006-06-12 14:21:20 · answer #10 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋