Theres this guy i really like today he asked me to have sex, but im not ready, but i really like him. im only 13 yrs. old i cant take care of a kid and follow along in school. so what should i do
2006-06-12 06:56:59 · 29 answers · asked by KT 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
You said it yourself, "I'm not ready", "I can't take care of a kid and follow along in school." So what do you think you should do. The answer is, not do it. You are smart enough to see why you shouldn't, now be smart enough to tell him no.
2006-06-12 07:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
I started having sex when I was thirteen years old and that is one of my biggest regrets. I didn't get pregnant, or nothing was wrong with him he was a nice guy and still is. We are married and have never left one anothers side but alot of the issues in our lives could have been avoided if we would have waited until we were older. First of all we had no idea what we were doing, had no clue what would or wouldn't get me pregnant and it's just nasty for kids that age to be doing anything sexual. You need to wait, no matter what people say to you it really is worth the wait. Don't disappoint those around you (mom, dad, family) just because you "like" somebody.
2006-06-12 15:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jaime W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will be so many guys in your life that you will like. Do not make any decisions to have sex with them at this age. He is just using you. I lost my virginity freshman year and it was the worst mistake I ever made. Sex chages things in a relationship. It takes away your inosence. Don't let a man talk you into anything. You are way to special to give your body away to some looser guy.
2006-06-12 21:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready, don't do it! Trust me, never have sex with a guy you "really like" This is a very important thing that you can never Take back. Chances are if you sleep with him, tomorrow you will only be another notch in the bed post.
2006-06-12 14:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by Fatchippy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sex is a very big step in ur life, u are still young to decide who is the correct man in ur live, u hae to think what that guy can do for u if something happened? maybe he is older than u and just want to use u for sex... i recomend u that wait to know him a lil more. if he keep pressing u then he dont love u for real, and if u feel strong enaugh for haveing sex with him and then he throw u away then do it.
2006-06-12 14:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by la de siempre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your thought process is healthy. There will be a lot of guys you will meet and think about having sex with but don't do it just because you like him or he is cute, you might come to regret it...do it when you know for sure that he will be there for you & when you are physically and emotionally ready of course
2006-06-12 14:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by Luna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please wait, and dont let anyone pressure you into anything you are not ready to do. There is alot of emotional issues that go along with sex and you are way to young to understand right now. If he really likes you he will wait for you to be ready. Dont listen to people who tell you to just do other things. Be responsible for yourself and enjoy your childhood before you do anything.
2006-06-12 14:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by EB&Js 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, if you really think about it, it's not that he really likes you, he knows you are crazy about him so he is going to try to get what he wants. another thing, your to young, you have a lot to look forward to. your time will come when you are ready and older. your only 13, your life is only starting . their will be plenty of boys who will like you, and if you go threw with this they will only use you for what they want,,, so i think you should talk to your mom, or a friends mom and be open about it. but please don't give in. say no, and if he still ask you out after that, let him know that you aren't planing to pay him back.love is not about paying them back with pleasure..
2006-06-13 09:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by adriana_ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look your only 13 you should not have sex we a guy at that age,you are only 13 and you can not have a future if you have a kid.but if you feel like you have to have sex with him and you don`t want to then don`t,if you want to then what can i say use a condom.
2006-06-12 14:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by shy annalise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question... your 13, and not ready... just tell him... if he likes you then he will remain a friend...if you say no and he goes the other way... then you know that he only wanted you for one purpose... Guess what that was.!!!!!!!!
2006-06-15 00:14:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋