my boyfriend lives in maryland, and i live in PA- like i just moved up here, and i love him so much- its really hard tho cuz we cant see each other that much... what should i do?
2006-06-12 06:53:31 · 8 answers · asked by GC_RiotGrl_879 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you love him so much, stick to the long distance relationship. sign up for a phone deal where you can make long distance calls very cheap...download skype off the internet, and talk to him [voice calls] over the internet. get a webcam [less than 25dollars] and see each other while chatting-it makes such a difference. keep in touch, share things, and hope you guys see each other soon.
you can learn a lot from the other person and your relationship when distance comes between you. don't give up..you can make it last as long as you want. my husband and i were in a long distance relationship for a long time before we managed to get together and now we're newly married. he was always against long distance, but now thanks me for getting him into it. not a day goes by that i am thankful we did it. we became closer, stronger and by the time we got together-wilder and happier-best of luck to you and your boyfriend. long distance does work for those who want to make it last.
2006-06-12 08:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by happy! 4 · 19⤊ 3⤋
L-D realtionships are not fun. If you are both mature enough and can trust that if placed in a situation that may be awkard, that neither one of you will act on it and you truely do love one another, it can work. LDRs can be tough at times. Loneliness can make a person very vulnerable. Given you are both old enough to make your own decisions ie 18+, maybe you both can work out seeing each other 2-3x a year. Travel is not cheap. Sometimes its better to remain friends until you are both stable in life that will allow you both to be in the same place. I wish you both the best of luck in your realationship. With trust and patience you BOTH can make it work. :)
2006-06-12 14:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by Scooter Monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships take a lot of work. You'll both have to make the extra effort to be there for each other. Be true to yourselves and each other. Talk often. Be honest with each other. It'll work out...it's just going to take some extra effort. Good luck! btw, my bofriend is in England while I'm in the States. I know we're going to make it. :)
2006-06-12 13:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by hkfilmfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him that much you guys will make it work. I don't know the whole story but i'm sure there are ways for you to see each other. Find a compromise and go with it. Love is a terrible thing to lose.
2006-06-12 13:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by prof56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i have the same problem my boyfriend lives in long island and i live in southern connecticut and we dont see each other at all but we make it work out cuz we love each other if you love him so so so so so so so much it will work out for sure
2006-06-12 14:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by Joanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships usually dont work out
2006-06-12 13:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i did that once it didnt last 2 wks cause he was already cheating so what may work for me not may work for u just hold on as long as u can
2006-06-12 13:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by omarionsgirl1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chat everyday and also call him whenever you can. try to visit him in weekends . plan trips in summer.try to keep in touch. if your love is true...your relationship will last. if it doesnt last then it wasnt ment to be from the start.
2006-06-12 13:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋