I been going outwith this guy (4 months)he is really nice to me but he can be really mean to other people he has two daugthers one of them is 6 and we went to a store and she asked for a toy and he said not but then he bought me alot of clothes at that store and pretty much the whole sunday we spent shopping for clothes just for me, I felt bad for her daugther but didn' made an comment he has a daugther that is around my age who just graduated high school and he talks to her kind of harsh yes she did wrong for getting pregnant but I don't think she should work still (at a fast food place) because she is about to have a baby in a moth.He is really nice to me and all but I worry because he gets upset easy no he doesn't hit his dauthers ever or ever touch me in a violent way I just have secoud thoughts about him. Everything has to be perfect for him he is like a big kid who trhows tantrum if somethins doesn't go his way. What is your opinion?
2006-06-12 06:38:44 · 11 answers · asked by donatella_millian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I won't say anything about age difference because things like that don't bother me. But, I would be careful with this guy. If he is that hateful to other people in his life, it is probably just a matter of time before he turns on you like that.
2006-06-12 07:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all, he has a daughter close to the same age as you who just graduated high school. I would find that part wierd. But, hey, not me. I think there is a problem though if he is spending all his money on you and making his youngest watch as he does it, plus makes his elder daughter work in a fast food joint and she is that pregnant. If I were you and my boyfirend was behaving that way I would simply break up with him rather than staying with him any longer. Sounds like he needs to grow up a bit before he is mature enough to have a real relationship.
2006-06-12 06:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by wyldcatt76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as he gets comfortable being around he, he might feel cozy enough to show you his mean side, too. and while he may always be nice to you, you shouldn't have to feel guilty because he seems to be nicer to you than his own children. honestly, it would be hard to bring it up in conversation this soon, since it's none of anyone else's buisiness how he wants to raise his kids. If it continues to bother you, you'll have to find a way out of the relationship, otherwise, just make up the difference by being extra nice to both his kids, that way they won't hate you for getting all the good attention.
2006-06-12 06:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by Exodus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what you get for dating an older man who has kids....HE IS A FATHER and acts like it.....you say he has a daughter your age....you have no idea how you will act when you become a mother...he may be harsh but he is bieng a dad....you dont like it you shouldnt let him buy you all kinds of clothes...try sticking to guys your own age since you dont seem mature enough to date an older guy with kids.
2006-06-12 06:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by 1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 19:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask his ex what he is like as the relationship moves on, like marriage. A lot of woman beaters don't hit them until there is a marriage. He sounds explosive, irrational, and cold. If he is, then I say, "Don't waste your youth on him". He may steal your best mate finding years.
2006-06-12 06:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by Mandalawind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he´s like this with his kids you better believe he will be like this or worse with you when he feels that he has you. you should really think if your willing to take this kind of abuse in a future, there's plenty of good guys out there whom are willing to treat people with love and respect
2006-06-12 06:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by ni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is a loser. And it sounds like he is too old for you. Find someone that doesn't already have a family.
2006-06-12 06:41:45 · answer #8 · answered by Evilest_Wendy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't this clown a little old for you? Jeez - dump that geezer and see if you can latch onto someone normal.
2006-06-12 06:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel sorry for the girl talk it out else leave it.
2006-06-12 06:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by gag m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋