Say you like a girl or are dating her but she doesn't like all the physical contact--hugs, kissing, cuddling, holding hands, etc. What do you do, if anything, to get her to change so that she is more physical/intimate? Or do you just give up and move on?
2006-06-12 06:30:56 · 14 answers · asked by aubade_11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it slowly.. Wait until shes completly comfortable with you,.. Dont force yourself upon her.. Give it time.. Itll happen slowly. Girls are obviously more careful abt their physical relationships.. Dont give up ion her you know, thtll give her more reason to avoid physical contacts... Just give her time.. And show her tht you love her. Thats the most important,. Cuz thn she;ll know she can trust you
Good luck
2006-06-12 06:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what I would do is talk to her and ask her why. After that, I would try and help her with whatever it is that is bothering her. Someone like that must have had something bad happen to her to make her act that way and once you find out you can help her deal with it. Be patient with her and everything will work out in the end.
2006-06-12 13:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she may just be nervous. After you start going out for a little while, she should become more comfortable and trust you more. She may just be afraid to put trust into you (get attached) for fear that you'll brak up. You really just need to give it time. Don't pressure her, and make her comfortable and do whatever you can to earn her trust.
2006-06-12 13:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER just give up on a girl and move on. my solution is act like you don't want physical affection. PLAN B is try sort of begging,but not acting like if you don't get physical attention,you'll die!trust me. this works
2006-06-12 13:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I agree with you,
Physical intimacy is quite ok
2006-06-12 13:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by --> ( Charles ) <-- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends on the guy what if the guy too don't want physical contact? Better right? lol
2006-06-12 13:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by 7thheaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a bit and ask her what it is that she is scared of? As long as u aint to heavy-and ur understanding...she may start to become more intimate with you.
2006-06-12 13:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by sidesix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u dont have to like her. Maybe shes just using u and doesnt like you. But before your ready to dump her find out first.
2006-06-12 13:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by Yankees Chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You give her a break and be a gentleman, that's what you do. Respect the young ladies attempts to remain chaste.
2006-06-12 13:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she have a reason like a rape maybe to act like that go slow at her pace one day she may just let you in because you have her trust for doing it her way or maybe she just isn't into all the mushy stuff
2006-06-12 13:32:58 · answer #10 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋