where did all the old fashion women with old fashion values go? why are there so many "must" take charge women

Answer 1

Because so many women feel alone and helpless and they are driven by the movement of the times. It's like a tidal wave. The still water just gets swept up in the current and before you know it, it's crashing onto the shore.
Some women only take charge because they feel they have to. Others are tired of sitting around waiting for the guy they want to notice how much their soul is burning and every waking moment is painful and thought-filled with him.
There are still some women, like myself, who choose to wait. But sometimes the man that decides to make the first move is the most violent and we don't want to get caught up in that. There aren't enough chivalrous men to go around, so women have to make do with what they can.

Answer 2

Strange that you should ask this question. I do agree with it by the way. I am still with the old fashion values. But in the last few months, I've encountered more questions from guys wanting to know why most women haven't changed with the times: re: opening doors for men, paying the tab when eating out; those types of things. I find no fault with either version as it's a world of new & changing ideas. But values should remain & come from a mother & father which by the way goes back a long way; re:"old fashion."
Hope that makes any sense to you...(~:~)

Answer 3

I think we as men have degraded into selfish, lazy pigs in the past 30 years.
Women have decided to pick up the slack and take charge, however, there are far too many women abusing that as well.
I still am old fashioned enough to believe that there are certain lines in jobs that just shouldn't be crossed for a variety of reasons.
For instance, I would never hire a man for a baby sitter/nanny for young children.
I would also never hire a women for a job such as construction where heavy lifting is required.
It's not sexist, it's just a natural instinct. and when females force themselves into jobs they are not suited for, they become the sexists.
However, i think every woman has the right to follow her dreams and take charge if necessary.
we men need to take more responsibility.

Answer 4

If I lived in a world where I could totally depend on others to take care of me -- a world where husbands never die or get sick or leave or simply put his own interests ahead of mine, a world where even if husband failed, then Daddy or Brother or Son would always provide for my every need -- if I lived such a world, then I'd have no need to accept any responsiblity for myself.

However, I live in a world where I must take a great deal of responsiblity for myself. Rights and responsibilties go together. If I'm shouldering the responsibilities, I'd be a fool to NOT want the rights that go along with them. Perhaps this is why some men seem so eager to marry fools?

Answer 5

the law. plain and simple. the womens liberation had its good points but some of it was just wrong. there is no such thing as equality between women and men. women are the other half of men as men are the other half of women. apart from the homosexuals for they do not feel like that. i am speaking on a man woman relationship here. i feel it is the duty of a man to take care of his wife and children. i beleive the woman should educate herself and get a college degree of corse but men should be stepping up to the plate and taking care of their family. my husband works and i stay home to raise my daughter. we will most likley have more if god wills it but i will do my part as a mother to ensure that my children are well behaved and productive members of society. i do not trust day cares and others to watch my daughter or what ever children are one day to come for the simple fact this world is not safe. as a mother the first priority is the children and the husband. when a woman does all of these things properly there is not much room for much else in life until they are old enough to go to school. this is taking charge in my sense. i am holding on to my family moral. as far as women that you are talking about if they had stronger men who cared for them they would not have to take charge and be angry at the world with their "i don't need any one attitudes."

Answer 6

There are still some old-fashioned women. I am one but, I like to take charge once in awhile

Answer 7

to be honest if your an old fashioned guy and a gent ect most women will fall head over heals, its so rare now days. im a take charge woman but only when i have to be if the guy takes control im smiten ( not forcefull though lol) women want the old fashioned romance but weve been taught to not expect it.
xx good luck xx

Answer 8

they left cuz they knew that old fashion women r out dated! i look up to women who "must" take charge, i think its great when a woman takes charge, it tells men that they don't have a say in everything and women can take charge too, not always men. i think some old fashioned women set a bad example, in my opinion.

Answer 9

Why should we be old fashioned? Do you want to be told what to do, what you can wear, who you can talk to, or speak only when spoken to? I think not. Don't get me wrong, in no way am I the aggressor in my relationship. We are equals. And I still enjoy cleaning the house, doing the laundry (Stay at home mom) and all the cooking. I make his lunch for him to bring to work every day, and make him dinner. But he doesn't order me around, or look down his nose at me. We treat each other with love and respect, and that is how it should be.

Answer 10

Times have changed, darling. Women with stand are increasing in numbers. They want to be people whom others looked upon, and not some housewives who worked in her own home her whole entire life.

And of course, there are still lots of old fashion women, and I should say, these women are women with passion and caring nature. There are around. You just have to observe. :)