2006-06-12 05:44:02 · 8 answers · asked by ? 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
right to life guilt
teen pregnancies, kids having kids...
anymore pregnancy is a consequence (a punishment) not the blessing that it should be. unwanted pregnancies are allowed to grow to fruition and thus wind up being treated like a burden, instead of a blessing. there are also the girls that keep their babies thinking it'll be something like a pet and when it turns out cramping their lives and social habits, resentment grows...
there are also well mature adults that expect the baby to come out like a little adult and they are dissappointed in how much work it really takes. also, some adults seem just fine on the surface but they're really not, i mean mentally ill people. a person can live a balanced functional life and never know that they have any problems. then along comes baby, add in sleep depravation and baby's screaming jags and all the other difficulties along the way. after a while things will come slowly bubbling to the surface. then before you know it, the child suffers.
i've always held that pregnancy ought to be licensed and sanctioned, especially in this day and age. with all the afore mentioned topics, it appals me that there is more training and authoritative permission involved in driving a car! but biology gives every idiot the right to pilot a human life!!! something about that just feels very wrong to me.....
there should be evaluations, screenings. people who are clearly unfit (like active drug users, mentally ill med non-compliant, teen and preteen, known abusers, ghetto moms with 6 kids, chronic welfare cases pumping out kids for a living) , and sittuations where the quality of sed child's life will be substandard; these mothers ought to be given a choice.
adoption or abortion.... these "ladies" (using the term loosely) need to be prevented by the state from inflicting themselves on an innocent and pure being. save the baby and the mother too.
when you see alot of this on a first hand basis every day, your opinions and ideas get stricter by the day. but to tell the truth, i've felt this way since i was young. i had a daughter when i was 20... i was very irresponsible. and my daughter suffered for it needlessly. now, i'm 32, i have a son (3), and my daughter has lived with (adopted by) my mother since she was 3. her life is much better than i could have made it at the time. and my son and i are where we should be. i understand and appreciate what a precious gift his little life is. there's no resentment only gratitude. he doesn't cramp my lifestyle; he is my lifestyle. every child should have a mother that lives with and for them everyday.
isn't that a right?
people worry so much about mother's rights; what about baby's rights.
2006-06-12 05:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by ladrhiana 4 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Because they were abused and haven't learned, or refuse to learn, a new way of treating others. Abuse is a cycle, but it can be broken. My grandmother was badly abused, but she was not abusive because she refused to treat her children as she was treated. She did this long before abuse was even talked about, and she did it without treatment.
2006-06-12 06:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by joleiey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First simply allow me say that God particularly particularly particularly loves kids. He mentioned that it could be greater to tie a millstone round your neck and bounce within the ocean than to maintain a youngster from him. I've been via plenty of crap, however I can nonetheless say that God is well and I believe him. I believe that he can flip this into well, in view that I've noticeable him do it earlier than. I believe that he will do the whole thing he can to redeem, repair, and make damaged kids complete. I additionally have got to believe that he will pass judgement on the abusers. This will particularly mess together with your head (it did mine): I've noticeable abused children develop to be abusers, meet Jesus and be wholly converted! God sees sin for what it's, sin. All sin is damaging. The indisputable fact that I've sinned makes me simply as responsible because the abuser. However, I have got to feel that an abuser would get God towards them lovely darn speedy, in view that of the way so much he loves children. But all sin, unforgiven and unrepented, continues a man or woman from heaven. God hates sin, now not sinners. I could like to undertake a youngster. Many folks in the market cannot have children and adoption is there best choice. What if a youngster could've long past to a loving household, anyone who could lay their lifestyles down for them (like I etc could) and also you opted to have them killed? Pretty definite that could get judged to correct? We have got to do the correct factor it doesn't matter what. We're on no account going to eliminate each abuser on the earth till Jesus comes again and makes all matters correct. But it definite could be quality to take a look at and ensure all children move to LOVING properties, and get a risk at lifestyles. I wager my factor is: best God can pass judgement on, and due to the fact he is loving and righteous, and the one ultimate pass judgement on, I believe him. Sin is sin, however I could (primarily) now not wish to go God in relation to kids. I recognize that as a father.
2016-09-09 00:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are dumb. It makes me mad when I hear of that because I had a miscarriage 1 year ago and I ask God why did they take my child when their are parents that are mean and abusive. But I guess things happen for certain reasons.
2006-06-12 07:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by morgan_loves_polina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this question because you suspect abuse, please call 911 or your local law enforcement immediately. Please. You could be the one to make a difference and stop the cycle of abuse.
2006-06-12 06:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can make babies but not everybody can be parents
2006-06-12 05:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by KathyS 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are idiots and stupids
2006-06-12 14:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by mysr28 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One word............ ignorance.
2006-06-12 07:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by mutherwulf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋