This went on for 2 years, I wasnt allowed to even call his house or have him spend the night with me because his ex would get jealous and get physically abusive. Now he believes I have "cheated" on him and it is hard for him to get over it because he is grossed out by me. Is he being immature? How did he expect for me to wait for him forever? Or am I jsut a dirty whore like he calls me?
2006-06-12 05:38:48 · 13 answers · asked by gigerninfo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like she wasn't his ex. what, he thinks he can have two girls and then complains of you cheating? he sounds like he's manipulated you so badly already that your perception of reality is ^*%$. also, if he's calling you a dirty whore, you really need to cut ties with him. what's dirty is that you are allowing someone to remain in your life like that. you were not wrong, but you will be if you don't move on with your life and stop taking all his nonsense.
2006-06-12 05:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not his ex, otherwise they wouldn't be living together especially if this has been going on for TWO YEARS. WAKE UP! He's feeding you a ton of b.s. so he can keep getting sex from you. This jerk is using that sick reverse psychology by accusing YOU of cheating on HIM. You never have to wait for someone if they really want to be with you. I sincerely hope you have left him and cut all ties with him and learned a lesson from this toxic "relationship". You're not a "dirty whore" he just calls you that to make you feel guilty and keep you under his control. Never get involved with anyone who's already involved with someone else, you just end up getting hurt. There's alot of decent guys out there. I know you'll find one.
2006-06-16 19:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell you a good one Two years? Baby girl what was you thinking that isn't his EX with all those stipulations. You are so better off without him trust. As far as all the childish name calling "I'LL BE THAT FOR YOU!" Keep stepping that boy isn't worth the time you take to look his direction. You will find someone who is allowed to be your man not a f..u..c..k Buddy
2006-06-12 05:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by sexy lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have left him a long time ago. If I couldn't call my boyfriend because he was still living with his ex and she was abusing him...man..are you sure they were really broken up??? COme on, it's the 20th century, he could very easily call the cops on her.
Did you actually cheat on him? If you did, then that's not right. If you wanted to get it on with someone else, you should have broken up with him first.
2006-06-12 05:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by MentalCaseMaggot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will never have kicked her out, u did right by leaving ur boyfriend, if he really loves u he will come after u, move on afterall u r not supposed to wait for him till thy kingdom come, u r not a dirty whore its his ex who is thats why she wont understand its over between them.
2006-06-12 05:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont believe him at all because if he broke up with her he should have kicked her out and get ready for a new relationship.If he really wanted you and not her then he would have done what you wanted him to.I think itwas good that you broke up with him.He is acting imature,be better than him and move on.Just ignore his dumb and imature comments.
2006-06-12 05:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were being played!!! No man waits for the right time to leave an ex he is either with you or with her. Stand your ground!!
2006-06-12 05:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by creeperlogic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, good to see you finally walked out on the dog. He would fit in well with those groups that have men with bunches of wives.
2006-06-12 05:41:07 · answer #8 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen if he truly loved u he would trust u. u spent 2 years. and his ex still loved him and he loved her. its k because u don't need him u will find ur guy and when u do he will be almost perfect.
2006-06-12 05:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, how little you love yourself. This guy is such a jerk. Find someone who loves you and who has no ex s. Leave them be. Have more self respect and self love.
2006-06-12 05:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋