Can you be in a relationship with someone who you think is the most gorgeous person you've ever seen therefore are intimidated by them which makes it hard to be intimate. What can you do to over come this??
2006-06-12 05:35:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best advice is that "intimidation" translates to weak self-image. Don't have such a low opinion of yourself... you're having a relationship with this person, for heaven's sake. Instead of intimidation, try gratitude. Appreciate what you have, and enjoy the relationship. Show off your partner and be proud of yourself.
2006-06-12 05:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by BeenThere69 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actually, studies have shown that supremely attractive people are very bad at keeping a steady relationship. Hollywood stars are an example. They are beautiful and handsome but their private lives are a mess, many in therapy just to try to keep their heads on straight. On the private level, many very attractive people find themselves in one relationship after the other -- their partners simply get used to them being attractive, and when the negative parts of their personalities come out, they and the partner cannot deal with it. People less attractive (but by no means ugly) are in the best position to have long lasting happy relationships. Likes do indeed attract likes, and two very attractive people bring multitudes of problems to a relationship. We are genetically engineered to be attracted to people we find attractive -- and attractive means, healthy, symmetrical, fat in the right places, healthy skin and hair. And, you are not programmed to over come this........ The purpose of being attractive is to reproduce the species...tough to go against your genes....But then this is probably way beyond what you asked...
2006-06-12 12:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by ladyren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is more about you than the other person. You have low self esteem and need to realize that you are the most gorgeous person you will ever know regardless as to how you look.
Keep in mind that beauty is skin deep but ugly is to the bone.
2006-06-12 12:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first off, theres no such thing as too attractive, there will ALWAYS be someone more attractive than you, its almost a proven fact...as for how to overcome this issue, become more confident in yourself, that way, you wont worry about how YOU look while being intimate with this person
2006-06-12 12:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by Scooby Doo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Don't feel bad, you don't have to overcome this and just focus on the person more than the looks.
2006-06-12 12:38:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sophia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend is 14 years younger than me and way better looking... dont worry just act natural..
2006-06-12 12:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by pinksgirlfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sing a song
2006-06-12 12:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by seeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have them fart or pick thier nose or crap in front of you or puke then u will not look at them the same.
2006-06-12 12:45:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just.....
this is kind of hard
but....
just forget about being intimitated
start complimenting her often
then you might feel equal
2006-06-12 12:38:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they crap out the back side just like anyone else
2006-06-12 12:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋