2006-06-12 05:26:17 · 10 answers · asked by Nita 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
They are not gone. There a fewer now than in the past. Much of the problem I feel can be blamed on society. We are tolerant of rude and unethical behavior.
2006-06-12 05:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is simple, in order to attract a Gentleman, you need to behave like a Lady. My husband (admittedly a British Army Officer), still stands when I enter a room or leave a table, seats me, and opens my car door and stands aside to allow me to precede him through doors. Why? because I expect it, because we are both properly brought up and this is the way we were taught to behave.
Equally, I take great care of him and show him the respect he deserves. Am I subservient? No. I am a Professional woman. We have equal standing in our relationship, and trust me, behind our bedroom door we are not faintly mannered! It's an interesting thing. If you show each other great respect it keeps your relationship on it's toes. Cultivate yourself. Work hard, find a style, expect the best and just watch what happens!
2006-06-12 15:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do YOU talk to men? Who do you surround yourself with? Maybe the change needs to come from within you and stop trying to dictate how others should speak to you, think about this question for instance. If someone makes you feel like squat, and this goes on, maybe your hanging around the wrong crowd.
2006-06-12 13:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the gentlemen get tired of being walked on and abused so they become thugs out of selfpreservation.try being nice to them and you'll find a gentleman.
2006-06-12 13:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son happens to be a gentlemen, that is how I brought him up to be. Try asking, "Where do all of the gentleman hang out at?"
2006-06-12 13:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by tbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy. It's all about supply and demand, I say. Sure girl's say they want gentlemen, but they always go out with jerky guys. If y'all would take a stand and stop letting us treat you that way we might learn a lesson. At least that's what I think.
2006-06-12 12:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by flournoi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GENTLEMEN are out there... be careful who YOU are attracted to...leave the thugs alone and they will leave you alone
2006-06-12 12:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chalk it up to our wonderful liberal society, where manners and courtesy are no longer required.
2006-06-12 13:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We live in NYC babygirl.
2006-06-12 12:28:59 · answer #9 · answered by spennykid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop hanging around dirtbags
2006-06-12 12:29:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋