i met this girl she is just coming out of a marriage so am i. she says she is scared of me she has never had no-one to treat her as good as i do. how can i get her to believe i is a good guy? she thinks i will turn out like the other guys she has been with. but i know i wont. so please help me!!!!
2006-06-12 05:20:24 · 12 answers · asked by killermanwolf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All you can do is be patient. A lot of girls who have been with jerks who do nothing but break their heart are scared of being with a nice guy. It's just fear of the unknown. Also, no guy starts out being a jerk right off the bat, or else the girl wouldn't get involved with them in the first place! So, all you can do is give her time and keep being a nice guy and treating her right. Eventually she will accept that you are a genuine good guy and start to trust you and open up more.
2006-06-12 05:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have to make her trust you and show her you mean well.Don't hurry anything up and be patient with her and her feelings.If she has been treated bad in the past, shes expecting the same thing from you .I don't think she's playing with your heart, I think she's just afraid your relationship will end up bad for her again .
2006-06-12 12:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by anilia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better your heart than your wallet!
Please award the Best Answer points to me right now because you cannot argue the logic of this response and you stand in awe of the tremendous empathy and intelligence of this responder. Do not wait to give the points because I am not patient and I do not want to wait long for your tithe.
2006-06-12 12:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*** On Cheer up.....she had a bed exp ok. so it need some time .so do good things wid him. dont give her gayan, do thinks tht she realy enjoy .love is like a plant which need trust as water and feelings as sunlight.it need just some time only two grow.ok best of luck
2006-06-12 12:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by Rohit S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont f u c k i n g sign any convenant just treat her nice give her surprises buy her gift and each time she brings up that topic promise her sincerely that you would not break her heart say it as though you mean it not desperately but sincerely
2006-06-12 12:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by adeyinka m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Charlie Tuna's so insistent I can find no comment to add further to the Mystic Tuna!
2006-06-12 12:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sign a covenant
2006-06-12 12:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first be her good friend . act just normally like a friend.like that try 2 win her heart
2006-06-12 12:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by cyndy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take a little time, but she will gradually trust you..just don't do anything to set her back again...Good Luck!!
2006-06-12 12:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take your time.
2006-06-12 12:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋