2006-06-12 05:17:56 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Marriage is great when you have the right one. That's why it is important to choose wisely. After all this is the person you are planning to spend the rest of your life with.
2006-06-12 05:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is what you put into it and I really mean that. I have been married for 12 years now. Guess what, it has sucked up until the pats month or so. Why? Well I guess I just don't put that much into it. I took things for granted and listened to everyone else on how a marriage is supposed to be. Give it your all and it will give you everything you need, want and desire. Show her you care every day and not just once and she will give it back ten fold. That is the truth. All the other people who knock it are either hooked up with the wrong woman, or they are full of it trying to be a real man. A real man that is happily married gives respect to his wife, tells her how he feels about her, and works hard to make her happy. If you can do that, you will be forever happy in marriage.
2006-06-12 05:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love being married
2006-06-12 05:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by Great Gifts 4 Everyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just like dating, only much better as you have the cake, cherry and icing rite here at home. I've been married for like 4 years now, got married at 21yrs and i've been having a ball. We having a kid soon so its an addition to the family....imagine how excited we both are. You won't know till you are married though..
2006-06-12 05:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by Missylicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best. Married 23 yrs.
It hasn't always been easy by no means...but worth it in the long run.
It takes along time to get to where we are in our marriage.
It's been alot of hard work and heartache at times..but anything worth having is. Have learned alot of hard lessons, but we've learned them togather. The first 6 yrs were practically knock-down drag-out until we figured out that we were both on the same team.
2006-06-25 11:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by spider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men Confess: "The best thing about being married"
There are a million reasons being a married man rocks, but we got guys to spill their absolute favorites. Get set for some surprises!
When we asked guys around the country what they love most about being hitched, here's what we heard: It's often the little things, like going grocery shopping and waking up next to you, that make life extra blissful for married men. Listen in on the details...
Cruising the Aisles
"This is going to sound weird, but I love going grocery shopping with my wife. First of all, it's a lot more fun doing it together than alone. Plus, you know that cozy feeling you get when you go grocery shopping with a new girlfriend and you imagine what your future together will be like? It's like I get that every time with my wife. It reminds me that we're a team, working together to provide for our family."
Daniel R., Kansas City, KS
More Mattress Time!
"Everyone told me that once you get married, your sex life is over. Boy, were they wrong! After 11 years of marriage, I can't remember my wife ever, I mean ever, turning me down for sex. In fact, I have to admit, sometimes I can't keep up with her!"
Jim M., Chicago
Decisions, Decisions
"What I love most about being married is that I have someone to share the big decisions with: I always turn to my wife for her opinion and support. I recently quit my job and started my own business, and having someone to listen and act as a sounding board made it a lot easier to take such a scary risk. It's still nerve-racking, but I feel better knowing that my wife will be there for me no matter what happens."
Adam P., New York
Best Nest
"I love coming home and talking about my day with my wife, instead of coming home to an empty apartment, like I did when I was single. I never realized how lonely I was until I got married. Even if I go out without her, it's great to come home and tell her who I saw and what we talked about. I don't even like going on business trips by myself anymore; the best part about going away is coming home and seeing my wife waiting for me at the airport."
Kevin H., Long Beach, CA
2006-06-12 05:23:34 · answer #6 · answered by super_sexy_amazona 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
AWESOME!! Married 20 plus years now and we've been through it all, and well just buckle up,hang on, hang in, for the wild ride of life, and marriage, kids(if you decide to)all of it!!! Being married to the right person for you, is probably the best advice and you have to give it time, patience, compromise, communication and loads of love, forgiving and forgetting...........
2006-06-12 08:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by Laurie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's as good ... or as bad ... as you and your partner care to make it.
If either of you has this attitude that a good marriage should "just happen" without having to work HARD at it, then it's not going to be a good marriage. The work part -- the negotiating differences, reaching compromises, making personal changes in your habits and expectations -- is what makes a relationship BE a relationship. Without that sort of work, it's not really a relationship at all, it's just spending a lot of time with someone.
2006-06-12 05:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it. Not to say its always peaches and cream. We both do things that annoy each other. But the great thing about marriage is that we have accepted that we will sometimes annoy each other and deal with it. The longer we are married the more we be accustomed to those things that used to drive us nuts. For instance, my husband is a cuddler. He loves to cuddle, especially when going to sleep. I like to cuddle but I like to be left alone when going to sleep. My husband used to drive me insane when he'd roll over and grab me to cuddle when I was trying to go to sleep. Now we are used to it. He stills wakes me up from time to time wanting cuddles, but he understands if I say no and cuddles with the body pillow I bought him. But despite how tired I may be, I try to let him cuddle for a while too. All in all I like it and I like that it makes him feel good.
Marriage is a tug of war - but not to the death. You give some, you lose some but in the end come out even. I love marriage. But it isn't something that comes easy.
2006-06-12 05:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is like everything in life. It has its ups and downs. But I'd rather be married because I truly found my soul mate. I love him with all of my soul. He loves me just the same. We make each other better people. He will do anything and everything for me and vice versa. So marriage is wonderful. Hopefully you can experience the same joy one day.
2006-06-23 06:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by Ariana W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll let you know after Saturday!!!
If you love the person then you should love marriage, yes it will be hard and challenging but you should still love being married, if not you shouldn't be with the person.
2006-06-12 05:53:39 · answer #11 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋