I love someone with all my heart, and before we got really close, I told him i had had sex before. I really havent. We want to get intimate, and I'm scared hes gonna find out I lied to him. What should I do?
2006-06-12 05:16:25 · 7 answers · asked by GC_RiotGrl_879 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honesty is always the best policy. With you being a virgin, he needs to know to be extra careful and gentle so he doesn't hurt you. I would just confess and tell him that you were scared he would judge you because you didn't have experience. If he is a good guy he will understand and be honored that you want him to be your first. Most guys prefer the girl to be less experienced than they are, it takes the pressure off.
2006-06-12 05:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Well that is exactly why you should be honest from the beginning. Sit him down and let him know the truth and hopefully he will trust you with things in the future.
2006-06-12 12:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by foolnomore2games 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to tell him the truth and hat you lie because you wanted him to like and if you said that you were a virgin maybe he wouldn't have
2006-06-12 12:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell him probably he will understand it, i think he should be happy that u trusted him and now u are making a decission to do some thing so personal
2006-06-12 12:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by nax_alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him the truth. remember it is never to late to tell the truth. but you are going to have to tell him why you lied to him in the first place because you know he will ask you.
GOOD LUCK
2006-06-12 12:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by sweet heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. If he doesn't car either way, he will still want you.
2006-06-12 12:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scared of what? He will be thrilled about the news..
2006-06-12 12:21:17 · answer #7 · answered by redsoxwchamps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋