I have been in correspondance with this girl from highschool. She's really attractive and gets hit on a lot. We are always touchy, feely at parties. She instigates contact every time. Over the weekend I saw her at a party. We flirted all night, and when I was giving goodby's to everyone to leave with the boys, we started messing around a bit. She wanted me to stay at the party house. I had to be up at 8:00 and it was 4:00 at the time. My buddies had to come back into the house and practicly drag me away from her grasp. I gave her a ring, left a voice mail the next afternoon. She has not responded. Normally I would not care so much. It was just kinda weird. What do you think? Was this just a little indulgence, or do you think this sounds like it could be more? I like her a lot and don't want to be clingy, though I would hate for her to think it didn't mean anything to me.
2006-06-12 04:20:54 · 12 answers · asked by alekmn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah .. she sounds like the "party" girl that everyone likes and she gets to pick & choose who's she's "hooking" up with every weekend.
I would try calling back sometime this week ... but only once. Leave a message if she doesn't answer - and wait for her to call you back.
If you see her at a party again I would play a LITTLE hard to get .. just to give her something to do .. give her a challenge .. most girls that get everything they want like a challenge !
If things don't work out .. I wouldn't worry too much about it .. she really doen't sound like a keeper .. but maybe a fun girl to hang out with for awhile - just don't get your emotions all caught up in this girl .. she also sounds like a heartbreaker !
2006-06-12 04:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's a little scared that you want more out of this than what she's looking for. I think she was just looking for a fun time with someone she felt comfortable around, maybe you took the comfort out of the situation with the ring. If the ring meant nothing more than just a friendly gesture, then let her know. She probably doesn't want anything serious if she gets all the attention you say she does. Variety is the spice of life...
2006-06-12 04:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like maybe she had a bit too much to drink, and unfortunately a lot of women get very flirty and touchy and sexually agressive when they drink that much. It may be she was genuinely interested in you, but she would have called you back if that was the case. Or she maybe has no recollection of that ever happening and has no idea why you are calling her. Or lastly she knew exactly what she was doing and is very embarassed that your friends had to physically intervene to get her off you and now she is ashamed to talk to you or call you back. I hope you get your answer and good luck.
2006-06-12 04:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by portjeff143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a lady but trust me when i say don't get too wrapped up in her. It was probably what it was, a hook up. Yes girls do it to. It's not something they talk about like guys do though. Guys let you know because they think it's cool, women on the other hand keep it quiet to avoid being called a slut or other name. Sounds to me like you should move on. you left a message so if she calls back then you're in, if not don't worry. You're being respectful which is cool. Sensitivity is not a weakness unless you let it get to be too much. Be careful with that. good luck kid.
2006-06-12 04:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by prof56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a player. Don't call her again for a while. Try again ONCE more next week, but then i would let it go. Try to be a bit cooler the next time you see her.
2006-06-12 04:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by alter_tygo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becos u didnt stay with her at the party house, she thought u didnt like her thats why she didnt return ur call, try and call her again this time make sure u get to talk to her personally.
might be too, she was drunk so doesnt remember what happened but i guess not.
2006-06-12 04:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't panic, she may have not gotten your messages, she could be still hungover. Just keep the communication going and let her know that you wished you could've stayed and that y'all should hook up this week. don't worry some girls don't get close unless they want more. She'll be back!
2006-06-12 04:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like shes a little desperate 4 yah.
2006-06-12 04:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by ♪♫jessy♫♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hunni, dnt wori she'l come round if she likes u so much. did u explain 2 her u had 2 b up at 8am or not. dnt wori its jus wot we iz like uz galz we play hard 2 get sori bowt dat i no it annoyz sum ladz but most ladz enjoy it. i fink she duz like ya but i dnt no wot iz rong. keep tryin but dnt try 2 much as it mite come ova as obsessed. gud luk bab.
2006-06-12 04:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by KiRSTY--BB3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she likes you...but had a little too much to drink that night...just a thought
2006-06-12 04:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by countrygirlcansurvive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋