there is this guy that i like and everytime i see him i think he likes me but then when i talk to him on the phone it seems like all he wants is to be friends with benifits and i dont want that i already have one of those i want a relationship and i have told him that he says maybe and on top of all that he never shows up when he says he is going to and sometimes i can not even get ahold of him should i keep triing or just walk?
2006-06-12 04:13:18 · 18 answers · asked by kat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just walk honey. Good things come out of it, you're ignoring him and you're getting in shape from the walking. I am not a man-hater, I just feel like we gurls should be strong and leaders not just followers or doormats.
2006-06-12 04:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation the only different is this guy was always accesible to me in one way or the other. I finally just decided to let things go from day to day and not worry about it. If it is meant to be it will happen. Only you know how long you are willing to wait but you have to also decide if the friendship within itself is worth turning your back on. I am still good friends with this guy and even though a relationship thought comes to my mind often I am at a point now that I won't push things by constant trying but I won't walk away either. I think the main decision you will have to make is the intimate side. Will he still be there for you without intimacy if so then I think the friendship is worth saving. Hope this helps
2006-06-12 11:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by denise_r3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Walk.
If a guy likes you, he will be there when he says he is going to. So the reason he isn't showing up when he says he is going to is that he's just not that into you. If he really liked you, he would be happy to hear that you want a relationship with him, but it sounds like you just dont mean that much to him. He is not treating you like a guy should treat a girl he likes and/or cares about. I'm sorry to be so blunt but I dont want to beat around the bush. It looks like this guy is after one thing, and that one thing isn't what you want. Just walk away from him... because the thing is, if you give him that one thing (and I'm sure you know what that is) he is going to be the one to walk as soon as he gets it.
2006-06-12 11:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that this dude is just playing with you. Don't waste your time. If all he wants is some " benefits " why doesn't he go to the social security office or something? He can also get a insurance policy in his name. Then he can get all the benefits he wants. Walk away.... There is someone in this crazy world that will truely love you without expecting anything in return. Good luck !
2006-06-12 11:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by papo9112001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep walking. He's told you want he wants and he has already showed you that he's not reliable. You will save yourself a lot of heartache if you move on. There are plenty of guys like him you need to find one that's not.
2006-06-12 11:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by charmed_4x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying but you are going to have to walk eventually if you dont have him in your arms in a month. I know how you feel sometimes. Boys,boys,boys cant live wit em cant live witout em. And love dont cost a thing but your man does!
-pretty platium a.k.a candygirl
i know what you are going through because i went through that a while ago so, don't feel bad.
- sweet silver a.k.a hottie
Girl me and u got alot in common cuz i am experiencing this same situation right now wit a boy in my school and i feel that he is doing the same thing to me as your boy is doing to u just differently.
-"Gorgeous Gold" a.k.a Kandy
2006-06-12 12:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by patricia p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all he wants is benefits then what are you waiting for. He obviously doesn't want a relationship. Either lose the fwb you have or forget this guy. good luck
2006-06-12 11:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by prof56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk.... it seems the guy only wants you on his terms, and couldn't care less about what you want... forget about him...he's just gonna continue to treat you like sh*t
2006-06-12 11:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by Whitney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk. Besides, maybe if you back off, he'll try to reach you again with a little more compassion.
2006-06-12 11:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep walking! He's showing no commitment or that he cares. Don't dwell on this one dude.. hello thre's thousands outthere. you deserve to be treated w/ respect!
2006-06-12 11:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋