Ok, I am going to be honest with you. I like this guy. I know it seems odd, but I am 11 years old. And I like this guy that skydives with my dad. He is so HOT! His name is Simon. He lives in South Africa, but comes out to the Drop Zone, every year to pack chutes and get some money. He plays guitar awesome, and always plays the songs I like!!! HELP! What should I do? I am always so shy around him, and he always makes me laugh, and get butterflies in my tummy. I can't help but smile around him!
2006-06-12 04:00:44 · 29 answers · asked by lTremble_Chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're 11 - talk to your parents about this.
2006-06-12 04:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Qmarc Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally I have no problem with age gap relationships and actually encourage people who are thinking of getting into them to go for it. But since you are only 11 and he is an adult I would discourage it. Not only are you too young (because you are under 18), think of the legal ramifications if you and he did get together and something happened. He could find himself in jail for a very long time. If you really like him as much as you say you do, then you should take this into consideration. Wait until you are 18 and then if you still feel the same way then go get him.
2006-06-12 11:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are always so shy around him because you are a KID. Sorry I know you don't like to be called that, but that is what you are. Give yourself a change to live and experience things with your friends. When you are old enough and things have not changed for you and him, maybe he will notice you. But for now, let him be your dad's skydiving friend. Let him see you as you are, a sweet little girl of his friend.
Just for you info, I am not a kid, I am an old guy giving you my opinion. Wish you will, have a great time in middle school, and a even greater time in high school, most of all, have a wonderful time in college.
2006-06-25 20:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by calvin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get in that mess. He is too old for you. And no matter how you feel about him or near him, you need to be careful. So what if he's hot or puts a smile on your face. You are eleven. You don't know yet what is love. Get out of the situation before it affects you to the point were you will be depressed all the time. Please just let it go. Good luck!
2006-06-12 11:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sophia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with becoming familiar with what interest you, however, some things are better left untested until you are mature enough to handle the consequences....@ 11 years old, it would be rushing things to start and expect a romantic relationship would develop into any lasting...slow down...nothing wrong with daydreaming...but give it some time so such feelings can develop into a dream come true.
2006-06-12 11:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, first you have to bare in your mind that you're 11 and he's your dad's buddy. true he's hot bu he's old enough to get married and it would be impossible for him to love an 11 year old kid. this is not true love, so just ignore it. on the contrary, this is just a normal puppy love crush that would happen to everybody at their early teen age. it is normal for girls like you to like older guys as girls mature earlier. so, just enjoy your teen life while you could because this is the most intereting time in life and nothing can bring it back. try to make yourself busy with activities like hanging out wih friends, buy storybooks etc. get more friends and sooner or later you will find that he's just your normal crush. wishing you all the best.
2006-06-12 11:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by calixte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is alright for you to have a crush on an older man at your age. There is nothing wrong with that; however, I highly doubt he will be interested in you romantically because of the age difference. If he does become interested in you, I would seriously worry because that just wouldn't be right nor appropriate. Go on and admire him all you want, but you will see as you get older your interest in him will fade and you will be starting to notice boys more around your age. Good luck.
2006-06-12 11:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by portjeff143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are by far too young to even be thinking those things, far less looking at another man that can even be your father..( I assume he's much older since he's your father's friend)
It's okay to like his company and it's alright to have fun..Fun really you are too young and he's too old for you..That would only get you in trouble believe me...Wait till you're a little older, and take things one step at a time..The right time will come don't worry..For the mean time it's okay to hang out and keep on having fun.. but get those thoughts out of your head...
2006-06-12 11:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 11 then he would have to be a complete pedophile to even flirt with you. You shouldn't waste your time thinking about guys enjoy your youth. However, eventually when you are a woman and thinking about marriage you should date younger men because women live longer than men. So if you were with some old guy he'd die way sooner than you.
2006-06-12 11:06:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is he? If he is of your father's age, don't expect much! He may see you as his little daughter. It's nice that you have this emotion! Is your first love right? Real love it's much better than that! Why don't you try and a find a boy of your age? I don't tell you to forget him, but make an effort!
2006-06-12 11:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by super_sexy_amazona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you're 11. Enjoy your youth. You can have a secret crush on him, but don't do anything about it. He's being nice to you because he's your dad's friend. If you're deadset on getting a boyfriend right now, try to find someone your own age.
2006-06-12 11:04:56 · answer #11 · answered by beaver40515 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋