ok my older sister is taking everything out on me! she has done some stuff with boys in the past and when my mom and dad find out she thinks i told them normally i do but it is for her own good i dont want her hurt i dont wanna be a aunt at 13 i mean she threatens me and my younger sister i mean wat can i do? i dont wanna take her crap anymore i just need help plz help me figure out a way to stop taking everything she does to me?
2006-06-12 03:58:14 · 15 answers · asked by texashotshot_56 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
talk to your parents tell them what is going on maybe they can get her some help.
2006-06-12 04:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a classic case of sibling rivalry. You are not the first little sister to go through this. I'm not sure what advice to give you since I never had a sister but I had 3 brothers and me and my youngest brother did not get along at all when we were teenagers. In fact I think you could say we downright hated each other, but now that we are adults we love each other dearly. You are both struggling to define your independence right now. I'm sure she feels betrayed by your tattling. I think you should try and focus on being her sister. Hopefully you can both learn from her mistakes. Instead of running to your parents to tell them everything she does wrong let her deal with the consequences. What doesn't kill her will make her stronger.
2006-06-12 11:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by yummymummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let your parents know right away what she is doing and that she is doign this to you and your younger sister. She has no right to threaten you or anyone else. And the next time she starts telling you what she has done just tell her you're not interested and leave the room
2006-06-12 11:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confornt her, tell her everyting you're feeling roght at that moment, tell her everything that you told us. Tell her you dont wanna be an aunt at 13 and that you only want whats best for her. I really do think thats she cares for you and you're family, but she is going through a rough patch right now and she needs someone to come and comfort her
I think by confronting her you are showing her that you really care for her and that you only want whats best for her
2006-06-12 12:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are going to find out if she's pregnant anyway, and they might not be happy if they learn you knew before they did and didn't tell them. Your parents probably have more control over her than you do, they could tell her the pros and cons of being a young mother.
2006-06-12 11:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by allyallyally222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell if she does hurt u tell again shell get grounded and just to make sure she doesnt climb out the window board it up if she happens to get out tell and if she has a baby tell ur parents and shell hav to put it up 4 adoption
2006-06-12 11:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by ynkeh8r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u should do is try to sit down and talk to her if that does not work tell yur parents everything she does and says to u.
2006-06-12 11:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by Hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her fine i wont rat you out anymore. but when your pregnant or about to get raped just dont come to me cause i tried to help and you said no.. then let her do what she want.
2006-06-12 11:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by mex_mafias_best 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom and i know your probably thinking no because she will know i told and that would make me a tattle tale but you need to take care of you first and foremost and then worry about wat ur sister is doing!!!!!
********Give it to Jesus hell see u through
2006-06-12 11:04:29 · answer #9 · answered by edw16ards 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to tell ur parents that she threatens u nd ur younger sister.
2006-06-12 11:07:59 · answer #10 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a long talk with her. If that doesn't work, thretend (scare ) the boy friend o ur sis so he's too scared to do it. If that doesn't work, get ur boyfriend to thretend him.
2006-06-12 11:04:06 · answer #11 · answered by Erik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋