I hate myself?

Question

i hate my parents......I'm afraid of being like them...and I can't stand to look in the mirror because i look like my mom. my dad hates me because i look like my mom. my mom hates me sometimes when i do something that reminds her of my dad. i just hate them both...the problem really is me, though, and my messed up head.

Answer 1

I am sorry you have to be stuck in the middle like that. I would seriously consider going to see a counselor. You need to be able to talk to someone and work through these issues. Good Luck!!

Answer 2

How old are you? Why do you let them bring you down? No one should every be able to break your spirit (especially parents). There is nothing wrong with you and there is no reason for you too hate yourself. They are the problem and sorry to say you should remove them from your life before you do something terrible.

take all that pain they are causing you and use it to motivate you to do better, be better and be happier. You should never want people like this in your life and you don't deserve to be a part or the target of their frustration and sad existence. They hate each other and are using you for an outlet don't let them! Be strong and fight back don't let them break you down to nothing. God put you here for a reason and it's not to be beat upon by two ungrateful people.

Pray, speak up and talk to God and he'll handle your parents but until then take matter into your own and leave, fight back, get stronger and be free. Your perish and that's what you need to remember.

Answer 3

How ironic... 8o) Well, I too have been in the same situation. I look like and act like my Dad, my mom hates my dad, so she acts out on me when I was growing up. My family is a train wreck, worse than any sitcom I've ever seen. I rented 8-mile just so I can see a family worse than mine.

It's unfortunate when parents don't act like adults, or even act like parents when they are supposed to. I felt like I was the parent raising them when I grew up with them, and I still feel that way now that I'm older.

Here are some things to remember. You see all of their flaws, so you know how to not to act, so you have an opportunity to be much better than them in every way. Now I'm going to give you the best advice of all. "Treat your neighbor as you would want them to treat you" What does this mean? God will treat you as you have treated others. And this will apply to your parents as well, and they will be treated the way they treat you. To this day, my parents still don't admit to any wrong doing, they continue to blame everyone else for their actions. Although I do forgive them, I know they will be judged harshly for what they've done. So hold your head up high, God will give you anything you want, anything good that is, so go and pray and believe, and He will help.

Answer 4

When I was a teenager I was scared of being like my parents, one is abusive and the other is a loser. People used to say I looked just like my mother which really freaked me out. As I got older and had my children, I realized that I didn't have to be like my parents and have strived to be the total opposite. You just need to realize what will make you happy and how you want to live your life and go for it. Don't hate yourself though, its not your fault who your parents are.

Answer 5

Sounds to me as if the REAL problem is in your parents attitudes not you. Take action. You'll feel strong and win some hard earned confidence.
I was abused by my parents. I started looking in the mirror & seeing the mother looking back, So I took action and got my hair done in a way that totally changed the apearance of my face!

Believe in yourself, Pandora

Answer 6

Parents are those very close people to us, you shouldn't hate them....I'm a parent, I know sometimes I do something wrong, but not to hurt my children, but because I think this thing is for my children's interest.

In your case, sounds that the problem is the affray between your Parents is affecting you badly. I think, the best thing is to talk to them separately. Tell dad, you love him and care for him, but sometimes you feel he doesn't love you as you do....

Tell Mom the same.

I'm sure they will consider it.

Answer 7

why r u taking evrything negative?
u shud always be positive
and always think that u r the best in the world

u r not supposed to think like tht
thats very bad
u shud be thinking positively to success
not negative things
then u wont be able to succeed in life

dont evr say that again
i know that u r the best and u will be
see we all r good frnds of urs
we all r saying positive things to u
that means u r the best

and whts wrong with ur parents?
all the parents love their child
why wudnt ur parents like u ?


PLEASEEEE dont think that
we all r here to give u good advice and to always think positive
ok

as u said in the last line that ther is problem with u
why do u think like that?
ther r no prob at all
u r fine
u r the best

all the best dear
always be cheeful
joyful
dont be sad or think negative
ok
evrytime positive positive positive

good luck dear frnd
byebye

Answer 8

Hate is a four letter cuss word in my opinion, and you don't hate yourself, you're just angry because you're not sure of how to deal with the situation that you're experiencing, I suggest you spend some time alone to gather your thoughts, then when the time is right, have a pow-wow with your parents and air your views. Good Luck:)

Answer 9

Girl this is what you do,
Every morning remind yourself that you are God's child and he loves you just the way you are.
You don't have to be like your parents and remind yourself of the mistakes you don't want to make.

Answer 10

its not you its them, but if you really want to be different just keep your head up and dont think that you hate yourself and try to get along with your parents before its too late. i hate mine for a whole different reason and i cant get along with them or my sisters its just impossible but you can all you have you do is try i gave my mom 7 chances and my dad 4. you life is not as bad as you think you can change yours before its too late. good luck