2006-06-12 03:18:05 · 26 answers · asked by Dat nigga T 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
You respect her decision and go with the flow. You can't pressure any1 into anything, unless they feel comfortable
2006-06-12 03:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by x0x0sara0x0x 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What make you think that you are old enough to take responsibility for the consequences of the act? Are you ready to take on the expensive role of care provider for a child for about 20 years (give or take 2)? Honestly, the consequences of creating a child are real. Using birth control contraceptives is only 80 percent effective, if you enjoy showering with your socks on...so to speak. It seems that you have not been adequately parented or supervised as someone who would have to ask 'what to do about it'. Unless you are employed in a career that provides substantially in the way of income, you are not qualified to consider marriage...much less the fringe benefits of marriage.
Find people to spend time with who do not pressure you to have pre-marital intercourse. Honestly, it is such a problem in our society, today. The brunt of the responsibility does fall to the girl; however, have you considered how you would feel to learn that you have created a baby ... and she doesn't know what to do about it. How do you plan to handle that situation?
"What do when my baby's daddy don't want to pay his child support" is a question your abstinant girlfriend is avoiding by just saying no.
2006-06-16 10:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you don't know the answer to this question, you should not be having sex, second of all I think it is time that you had this talk with your Father or someone that you can trust like an adult. Sex is not a joke dude, you have kids as a result, so please know what the hell you are doing before you go engaging in something that can be life altering.
2006-06-12 10:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by michelle b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her decision, it is her body. Don't pressure her and if you are stupid enough to force her you'll probably end up in jail for rape. (Not saying that you are, but you can never be sure right)? Seriously though if she knows your interested give her time, don't pressure her, when she is ready she'll let you know and in the end it will be much better for both of you.
2006-06-12 06:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by bluekitty8098 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all why are you asking questions regarding sex in a place for school aged children? and secondly, when a girl says NO she means NO!!
2006-06-13 07:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by mizmom22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see everything isnt about sex some people just want a reltionship is that to hard to ask for
2006-06-17 04:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by Alyssa B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really respect her wishes. What if the situation was flipped and you were in her shoes. How would it make you feel?
2006-06-12 08:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by dalejrfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i assume you've had several dates and have gone through the appropriate courting ritual
if she does not want to have sex, this is her choice, you need to respect it
if you want to have sex with a woman, you can always find one that is willing
2006-06-12 03:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by whoisgod71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deal with it. you must respect her choice. in the meantime til shes ready jack off at home.
2006-06-12 03:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FYI its called RAPE if you do it when she dont want to
if you really and truely care for her you will wait until she is ready.
2006-06-12 04:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by hotchik20002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋