I got this HOTTT girls number the other night.. and I just need to say soemthing when I call her later today. can anybody help me? cause I talked ot her last weekend, and she said sothing. but Saturday night, she said that she likes me, so I got her number.... so tell me what to do.....
2006-06-12 03:04:14 · 12 answers · asked by kenny032004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you don't know her very well, it may be awkward to talk for any length of time on the phone. Figure out where you're going to take her on a date, and use the phone call to ask her out. For example, you decide you want to take her out to dinner.
*ring* *ring*
Her: hello?
you: Hey. It's _______, remember, we spoke at the party last night.
her: Oh, hi! How are you?
you: I'm good. I couldn't get over how (insert something here, example: loud the music was, many people were trashed, late it got, I really lost track of time). OR: I couldn't leave my friends at that club the other night, and I was so tired- you really saved me. (or some variation)
her: giggles and agrees
you: I was wondering if I could take you out to dinner sometime- say, friday night? It's a casual place, they serve great _____.
her: yes (or no, I'm busy. in which case you ask her when she is free)
you: can I pick you up at 7:30?
her: yes (or no, in which case a small negotiation takes place)
you: great. I'm really looking forward to it. See you then.
HANG UP
Don't make it a long and painful conversation. You can talk to her in person. Here are the basics:
1. when you call her, tell her who you are, and then remind her of where you met or how you got her number.
2. say something casual about the place where you met or if you can't come up with anything, that you hate that it's raining today, just put some filler in there.
3. have a romantic date in mind, a specific day and time and place. Ask her to go out with you.
4. if she says no, she's busy, ask her to suggest a time that works. If she offers to call you back or in another way suggests that she's not interested, be polite and allow her to escape.
5. Make sure you get all the details sorted out. Where you are going to meet/pick her up, where you are going (or at least, let her know if it's fancy or casual).
6. Tell her you're looking forward to it and hang up the phone.
2006-06-12 03:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by landed 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well, first of all, try to see beyond the HOT factor or else you'll have nothing to say. You're at a loss for words and ideas because you're not looking beyond her looks. You HAVE to in order to be able to create converstion.
So if you can look at what she mentally has to offer, do so, if you don't know, that's what you talk about. Find out about her rather than focussing on her looks and appearance.
Ask her questions about what she likes to do for fun recreationally. You might find out that she rides horses or walks dogs or hates cats or loves classic movies. Ask her if she has any vacation plans for the summer and where she's traveled to for fun in her life.
2006-06-12 10:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say HI and if she ask where you get her number do some innovative explanation that can make her heart melt...and will talk to you more often..just be sure don't over do it,its easy to tell when a guy is lying or joking thru his voice,,,,
2006-06-12 10:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by effy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hi this is then say your name you gave me your number and i wanted to give you a call to see if you were still interested in going out for a bite to eat?.
2006-06-12 10:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by J P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the first phone call short and sweet. Ask her if she would like to go out somewhere, set the time and date and leave it at that. good luck.
2006-06-12 10:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by yooper guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say...."Wow, you won't believe how nervous I was before I called you. All I've been thinking about is trying to figure out something I can say that would be good enuff to talk to you about"
2006-06-12 10:09:47 · answer #6 · answered by shelly 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Hi, this is (your name here), lets get together this weekend at (insert a place here)".
It really doesn't matter what you say as long as you are confident in your speech. DO NOT come across as nervous, needy, or desparate. Good luck.
2006-06-12 10:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by tobcol 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first be cool dail her number if she picks up the phone dont be tensed causually said ur name and introduce yourself as her friend then ask about her then call her regularly and develop ur friendship then propose ur love she will definitily wont reject u
all the best
2006-06-12 10:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by kutty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been thinking about you....I think your a really cool girl. Do you maybe want to go out with me sometime when your not busy? theres a start.
2006-06-12 10:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by ☼♥Manda♥☼ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking about something. NOTHING PERSONAL OR DISGUSTING! Ask her something like, what her favorite band is, or something else. It's not that hard.
2006-06-12 10:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by Shy n' Sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋