My nickname is Ziphorah
I'm a 19 year old black female
I'm a Gemini
ziphogama@yahoo.com
I'm a 2nd year Marketing student @ the Durban University of Technology
I'm originally from SA's city of Gold
2006-06-12 02:53:57 · 10 answers · asked by ziphora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So your in college 19 and your ex cheated. College is a great place to meet people and you will have plenty to do with your studies. This is not the last time you will love. Hang out with the girls and let time heal your relationship. Also cheating doesnt mean its over. There are alot of successful relationships that have come from situations like yours.
2006-06-12 03:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by arreis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm RUN! I dont care how much he loves you, you love him, etc .. if he cheated on you to get some other woman pregnant - then he will cheat on you again (and again, and again!) and to add to the confusion of all that - he is now going to father a baby and if he is a good person he will remain in that babies life for at least the next 18 years ... move along ... you deserve better!
2006-06-12 09:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by bluskygreengrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard to let someone go that you really love but just think of yourself if you go back with him you won't be able to trust him at all.Point blank if he really loved you he would have never cheated had sex and impregnated another girl.
2006-06-12 10:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, you have to let him go!
I went out with Joe for 3 years. In some ways, I miss him, but I had to let him go because he got the neighbor girl pregnant. I told him that he had to marry her. Basically, I hauled them both to church to get married. So, they got married, had the baby boy, & even had a second baby boy a while later. When they were toddlers, she took offf with their boys & they got divorced. I still feel that I did the right thing, making them get married.
2006-06-12 09:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by mrsdebra1966 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're putting up a personal ad rather than trying to get back with the idiot ex of yours.
2006-06-12 09:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by BluStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun first of all think about what you just said. he got another girl preggos. which means he is unfaithful. why would you want back an unfaithful man. no matter how many times he tells you he wont do it again he will. unfaithful partners are always unfaithful. they cant keep their clothes on
2006-06-12 09:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by silvereagle1125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ziphorah let that idiot of yours to get going with his new girl friend..if you'll show him that though he impregnated you still love him,he will continue that bad behavior.
2006-06-12 10:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by ferodza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loved you then he wouldn't have been with another woman.
If you take him back, there won't been any trust. Love and trust should always be hand and hand.
2006-06-13 08:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back together with him.
2006-06-12 09:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by rkroxmysox915 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may love him, but if loved you he would never have disrespected you and slept with someone else. get over him, find someone else!!!
2006-06-12 10:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by Krystle J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋