I have a guy named chad. Problem is he cant call me on time. He works at night and he is "too tired" during the day to come see me but when he does answer the phone he is always at a friends house or a party he "didnt even know that he was going to". But when he is around he says things about other girls to hurt my feelings....not that I'm insecure, its just that I can't understand why he says things to purposely hurt me. He also has a quick temper and is quick to call me multiple curse words when he's mad. What should I do....help.
2006-06-12 02:16:34 · 13 answers · asked by shelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him "welcome to Dumpsville. population: YOU"
2006-06-12 02:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by lovin_me2day 3 · 4⤊ 3⤋
I dated a guy once who was always too busy or too tired to do things with me but would magically "happen" upon hanging out at a party or going out wiith his friends (mostly women friends).
The bottom line is this Chad only wants to see you when it's convienient for him. He's not concerned with what you want. I have talked to many male friends who tell me that if a guy is into you, he'll FIND time to see you, tired or not. The "I'm tired and I'm busy" lines are just that...lines.
Move on and forget about Chad. You don't have to take his abuse, you are worth so much more than that. Good luck.
2006-06-12 02:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him, he is a bum. How convenient that he never has time for you but always ends up at a party that ''he didn't even know he was going to'' He disrespects you by talking about other girls in front of you when he knows that it makes you uncomfortable. Plus if he has a quick temper he may hurt you sometime. There are plenty of good men out there, get rid of him, Good Luck
2006-06-12 02:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chad is showing that he has no time for you, and he doesnt even make an effort when he does have time. how can he be too tired to see you and go to a party with his mates? he just takes all of his anger out on you, which is not right at all, and he even says things about other girls to hurt you! he doesn't care at all, and it sounds like you care about him which he doesnt even deserve. im a guy, 17, and i have a girlfriend whos also 17 and we've been going out for a year. we love each other with all our hearts, which everyone deserves, especially you. you deserve so much more than to be treated like that, so leave him as soon as you can and find someone special.
2006-06-12 02:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by swan_song 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer in your heart. This relationship is not making you happy. Time to move on and find someone that puts your feeling ahead of his own.
2006-06-12 02:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The decision is yours but there are red flags that you should consider. His temper is the biggest red flag in my opinion. Another thing to consider is his lack of concern for your feelings.
2006-06-12 02:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by Maria M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE - purely because he has a quick temper & calls you bad names! Why would you want to subject yourself to that?
2006-06-12 02:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL LEAVE HIM DONT LET NO MAN DISRESPECT YOU . BUT IF YOU REALLY LOVE HIM THEN TALK TO HIM ABOUT THIS TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND ASK WHY IS HE DOING ALL THESE THINGS TO HURT YOU LIKE THAT.
2006-06-12 02:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave straight away and find someone u feel comf.with.That's ridiculous,no man should treat any woman like that !!!.
2006-06-12 02:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by Mika K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple lil word YES
2006-06-12 02:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by jd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should not waste any more time with this guy,obviously he is self centered and selfish
2006-06-12 02:22:11 · answer #11 · answered by sbigdog1963 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋