Well my best friend broke up with her boyfriend and he broke up with me just to go out with her. What should I do.?
2006-06-12 02:14:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ditch them both...
Why would you want him back after this?
2006-06-12 02:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by ne0teric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look Babe,
If he left you for her then he is no longer worthy of you. I wouldn't care if he was kicking around on the ground on fire screaming "Ahhhhhhhh! Throw some water on me!" I wouldn't give him time of day from this point. LET HIM GO! I know it's not as easy as it sounds, hon, I just broke w/ my boyfriend of six years because I found a pornagraphic tape of him cheating on me with another girl just last week. That awful cold, hollow stomache feeling will be around for a while, but let it hurt and move on. My ex cheated on me with the girl he broke up with me for five years ago, when they broke up he came crawling back. I took him back and this is how he did me. You are way to beautiful and special to be treated this way. You let these BOYS know that you will not be treated this way. Let him know he messed up and he lost you. Thats his ultimate punishment believe me. I know when you put time into a relationship with some one you dint want to start over but the feeling will go away in time and you'll find someone knew. Love yourself and trust me Darling.
2006-06-12 09:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by shelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI you shouldn't be asking yourself this. why would you want him back. he betrayed you with your friend. well so called friend. if she was a friend she wouldn't have gone out with him. and if he was your boyfriend he wouldn't have gone out with anyone. you are better of without him.don't waist your time on someone that you Carnot trust.when you fall for someone you have to trust them. if not you will always be wondering about them when you are not together.find a nice guy. one that wouldn't think of doing anything on you because your to special.and if he did this on you. he will do it again. and this time on her.don't waist your time on a guy like this.he will never make you happy.good luck for the future.that special someone is just around the corner.just don't be so quick to go looking for him. because he will come along when you lest expect it.sammylee,
2006-06-12 09:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by sammylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can obviously get him back. Just make him feel what he has lost ditching u. Let him know whats ur value in his life. Let him know how precious u r for him. And see how he comes back. But still he willonly come back if he really Loves u. Or else u will understand that he was just ditching you :-)
2006-06-12 10:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by in_searchof_truefriends 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't goin to stay with you hun if that's what your thinking watch another girl walk by him and he'll fall(i mean if he's the type a guy you know) he probably isn't mature enough(as many guys arn't) to hold a strong relationship with somewhat yet.
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2006-06-12 09:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by Cupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let time repair the differences, befriend him without pushing yourself upon him.
Try to meet up with new associates in the mean time to keep you occupied.
2006-06-12 09:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Wings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a sticky one!
If you want him back & don't mind playing "pass the parcel".
Me, I wouldn't want him back he sounds like a right wants all his cake & eat it!
Go & find someone new, huh?
2006-06-12 09:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on.... think about it, you are actually better off without them in your life he's a dog and your friend if she went out or is thinking about going out with him is a slut. you don't want people in your circle who you can't trust and who is so inconsiderate and quick to hurt you. [ you'll be fine ]
2006-06-12 09:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by miki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you always show ur tantrums, anyone will break. I think its good for the girls. They are in this habit of breaking up and always finding new guys. They are good in this game.
2006-06-12 09:19:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him, build a higher self-esteem for yourself and life itself will grant you a man who appreciates and give you all respect and love that you deserve- just meet genuine people.
2006-06-12 09:20:13 · answer #10 · answered by S3R3S/\NDR/\ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋