we've been going out for 5 years and he has this other girl for 6 years. I knew when I got involved with him that he do have girlfriend but that didn't bother me at that stage cause I thought this was just for fun and there wont be any strings attached. After then I fell in love and I cant let go. Even if I'm trying he keep coming back but he is so greedy that he cant leave the other girl. What do I do.
2006-06-12 02:03:29 · 20 answers · asked by Crinky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
continue to be second best!
WAKE UP GIRL.....................he will never leave this other girl for you. he would have already done it. he keeps coming back coz you keep taking him back. have some pride and respect, DUMP HIM
2006-06-12 02:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you think he is going to leave her your wrong he has been with her 6 yrs and all you have been is the other woman. I can't believe you have even done that, Do you not care that he goes to bed with her too. Ewww ok dont mind that part there lets get to the point at hand Yea so he is greedy time for you to let him go. He is never going to commit to you. Especially since ur lettin him get away with being with 2 woman, Why should he leave? If you want more well u better go find it else where and how about see to it that ur the only one. Hope his #1 gf doesn't find out cause wooooooooo she'd have both ur as*. as she should
2006-06-12 02:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by one with no name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you have a very difficult choice. If the guy wont leave the other girl your going to have to move on. This will be really difficult and painful for you but when you find someone else that is only yours and nobody elses youll be a lot happier in the long run. So go and find someone else and be happy.
2006-06-12 02:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if his "other" woman knows about you? She is the one getting burnt in this situation. You and him knew what you were getting into. I would leave him and maybe open this woman's eyes to his cheating ways, because I bet anything if you call it quits with him, he will be right back out there looking for another mistress!!!
2006-06-12 02:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by sweetestthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go for that long period of time you sacrifice and bear that he got another girlfriend..you tolerate the situation that's why he abuse it to think you're just okay with it he continue doing it.he turn between two rivers now..which is which is his motto..but if i were you i give way i still could find a man better than him.Why sticking up to him knowing you got no future in your relationship...Don't be too martyr okay..stand up your dignity...if he don't want to let you go ask him to choose between you and the other...
2006-06-12 02:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by effy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're getting played on like crazy, after 5 years he's still with her too? Move on, you'll never have him to yourself. If he wanted you that bad, and only you, he'd have done it by now. He likes you both and wants you both to be there, tell him its off, and see what he does? it might just make him realize that he wants you more. Either way, thats a bad relationship.
2006-06-12 02:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by clubgurl1822001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear,
"love is something which is like air,when it is with you you don't know and when it is gone then u relaise it is not there".
hence, what you thought as a time pass has now become a reality.to err is human, and hence i would say why don't yousit down and talk to this guy as what does he think about your relationship. if he is serious then go forward otherwsie donot risk your heart for your emotions. at last you will be emotionally blackmailed for this relation.
2006-06-12 02:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either accept that you'll have to share, or get out of the relationship. Tell him this is what you're facing, and maybe he'll leave the other girl for you, but probably not. Most likely, you'll have to choose if you're willing to share or not.
2006-06-12 02:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the bum to take a hike there are plenty more fish in the sea. U have a inferiority complex u don;t think much of yourself if you would settle for being second best. learn to care about yourself and give that gigalo the boot you will get over him
2006-06-12 02:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by bridgettemarie123@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got two girlfreinds and you're second best.
To put your relationship in it's proper perspective you have to also have another boyfriend that you like better than him.
It's all for fun right? Double your fun. Two ***** are better than the one dick you now have.
2006-06-12 02:12:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur his mistress a lover nothing more he comes for u when every thing with his women is messed up and when things are back on the right trail he goes back to her.
2006-06-12 02:10:05 · answer #11 · answered by Factor X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋