She is actually a licensed massage therapist and she does this once a month to raise money and asks for donations. Last Saturday, I went and we went into the pastors office where she had this table and she gave me a full body massage. We were at it for about a half an hour and she was really getting in and massaging my sore muscles very deep. I was kind of moaning with the pain and then she asked me if I wanted a "happy ending". I didn't know what she was talking about and so I said no. Now that question is really bugging me. What is that supposed to mean? Should I say something to her or the pastor?
2006-06-12 01:52:26 · 13 answers · asked by idspudnik 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Very nice story.
2006-06-12 05:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by *** 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That sounds a little odd. If she did say this I hope she was joking, even so, it's very unprofessional. As a pastors wife, I doubt that she meant what you were thinking. However, I've heard of worse. She may simply have meant for some relaxing back rubs, and didn't realize how it sounded until after she said it. We've all had embarrassing moments like that. As far as doing massage as a fundraiser that's fine.
2006-06-12 08:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not say a word to her nor her husband. If you needed clarification, you should have asked her meaning when she offered a "happy ending". You can quit obsessing over her meaning. Going on about it only makes you come across as meanspirited and vindictive. Do you know for sure that her "happy ending" isn't sharing a personal witness to her faith in her god? If the thought makes you uncomfortable, just don't go for one of her massages again.
Certainly, if she's a licensed therapist, her using those skills as a fundraiser for her church is perfectly acceptable. Several of my colleagues - professional nurses - regularly provide their services as fundraisers. It is legal and acceptable. So don't sit there blithely insinuating evil intent: the most evil I detect here is your dirty mind!
2006-06-12 09:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your story stinks of inventive fiction - however on the very slim chance you're being honest (still doubt you are)...,
I would be leaving that Church in a heartbeat. That sort of stuff should not be going on at all - especially in the Church building itself. For a pastor's wife to be doing such things in the Pastor's study - he would have to be fully aware of what's going on.
Get the heck outta Dodge - uhm..., that particular Church too.
2006-06-12 09:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by Victor ious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, by all means, ask her in front of her husband, so the air can be cleared. Don't be accusatory, just ask what she meant because that confused you and stuck in your head.
It may have been that she didn't want to make you sore afterwards .... I remember our office treated all of us to back massages in those weird chairs by licensed therapists, and we all walked away sore for days lol. That's one deep massage!
2006-06-12 08:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bible tells us two things. They are to abstain from the appearance of all evil and do not do something which, even though your conscious does not condemn you, what you do may cause a weak brother and/or sister to fall from grace. Does this help?
2006-06-12 09:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by 1saintofGod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds inappropriate to me, you might mention the episode to him and ask him what a happy ending means in that context.(the pastor).
2006-06-12 09:24:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is clearly not a serious question. Go back to creative writing class. If it is for real, find a new church.
2006-06-12 09:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should ask her about it first and then if she just ignores u tell the pastor
2006-06-12 09:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now
2006-06-12 10:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by righteous992003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋