I have a long history with one of them (7 years) and I don't know if i still love him or is it just hard to let go and the other one is perferct! but I can't open my self to him...
2006-06-12 01:24:09 · 7 answers · asked by tom k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think neither man is the one for you because if either one was there wouldn't be any confusion.
2006-06-12 01:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is weigh up the pro's and con's of each man, you clearly can't have feelings for the one you have been with for 7 years otherwise you wouldn't have another on the sideline, you have to say to yourself, do I love this new man in my life, or am I just looking for what is missing in my long term relationship. My suggestion is dump both, and then see what happens. You might even find you don't have feelings for either. God girl don't do what you are doing to yourself or the two guys either
2006-06-12 09:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will always be what appears to be "greener grass" upon occasion. If there are really no serious problems in your 7-year relationship you have to ask yourself--committed or not? Attraction, admiration, infatuation or downright lust are most often fleeting emotions that are strong but will not develop into a satisfying, lasting relationship. Plus, don't forget that you are not the only one whose passion may be waning.
2006-06-12 08:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by overtheline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not deserve either of those men until you can decide which one you want to be with and cut the other off completely. What if they were deciding between you and another woman? If its that hard to choose you are not ready. Do them a favor, leave em both alone to find a woman who will really love them
2006-06-12 08:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by kill bill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are comfortable with the 7 year relationship its like a old pair of comfortable slippers you just can't part with if you feellike you have a chance with this new guy why not just try simple things like going for coffee and talk and then work your way up to a long walk and see how it progresses that way your other guy has no reason to get jealous and if he does that is his problem you are allowed to have other friends
2006-06-12 08:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by bridgettemarie123@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tricky! You need some time to think, but everyone knows what they want deep down. It's just hard to open up to. Just try and realise what you know you want.
2006-06-12 08:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by Cute kit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put down 7 years, he is important for your life
2006-06-12 08:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by ice cream with chocolate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋