we work together and he has never said any thing to me what does it mean.he sends me porn mails every morning
2006-06-12 00:50:15 · 35 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd report him to Human Resources since that's sexual harassment.
2006-06-12 00:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems a pretty stupid guy to do that at work, id have a word with him 1st but if it persists id report him to HR, you could both end up in trouble if the worst same to the worst and you were found out. id call it shocking and unwanted form of sexual harrament you shouldnt have to deal with that in the work place. I work as an IT engineer if i found that being transmitted around our work network the person who sent it would be fired on the spot
2006-06-12 01:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by dave g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I send such dirt things to my friends too just as a joke of the day and none minds, but I find it difficult to send to my lover. So that could mean, he is your friend for him to be free with such things to you. you just reply on one of the mails and ask him why he sends you such, the he will reply to your question and you will be cleared, if you dont like the stuff, then you can tell him not to continue.
2006-06-12 02:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be that he is very shy and that he like you. However if ths gets out of hand try having a word with him and asking him to back off. If this does not work then i would take it further and contact your HR department
2006-06-12 05:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by Katty83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how this behaviour makes you feel. If I were you I would feel insulted and assume that the person was attempting to shock me. You shouldn't have to stand for such silliness. Tell your manager and arrange a meeting between yourself, your manager and the person in question to discover what is motivating his behaviour and how it can be stopped.
2006-06-12 00:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sending these emails can lead to him being dismissed, ALSO if you keep receiving them and cannot prove you have asked for them to stop you could also get in to trouble for receiving porn emails. So ask him to stop, find out way he sends you these emails and if he does not stop tell him that you will report it to HR or your line manager, can can if you wish also explain way they NEED to stop.
2006-06-12 01:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jim M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has been told you like that kind of thing and hasn't got the balls to contact you directly...
If you aren't interested, tell him that if he don't stop, you will contact HR...
If you are interested, ask him out on a date to watch some porn...
2006-06-12 00:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he's either harrassing or testing you.
Either way, if you don't like it...I'd approach him and let him know in a straight-forward manner that you don't like it...see what he says/does but don't lose your cool or get upset in case that's what he wants!
If he doesn't cease...take the matter to your manager.
2006-06-12 01:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to cut the crap. A guy who doesnt have the courage to talk to a lady is not worth being around.
2006-06-12 01:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by bombed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's an idiot, so block him, he's not worth worrying about. If you can't block him, forward his emails to his boss and complain as it could be considered sexual harassment if unsolicited. Tell someone anyway....
2006-06-12 02:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by Jane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is decent during the day something happens at night and that maybe the first thing he does when he gets up.
What do you want? Take him, Leave him or smack him, your choice.
2006-06-12 00:55:02 · answer #11 · answered by samson l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋