just be yourself - we love that the most!
ever noticed that even stupid idiots get girlfriends? it is because they love who their boyfriends are....
good luck (although i don't think you will need it)
2006-06-11 23:59:10
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answered by 42 6
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I am an older lady, so I probably do not know what all the younger ladies like these days. I do know that most of us like to hear nice things about ourselves at times, and we love a man who is considerate and we like to know he thinks of us when he is not with us...most of us are impressed with small tokens of your affections (that don't have to cost a lot of money)...stop on your way to see her and pick a pretty flower for her...it's the little things that count sometimes. I don't know so much about the gossip thing, you have to be careful with that, always. We do like guys who have a good sense of humor.
I don't much care for men who are "short" or snap at me when we are
1. lost (because he is driving)
2. at a bad restaurant (because he chose it) or
3. He is just grouchy.
So if you want to keep your sweetie as sweet as she is right now, be thoughtful and nice to her even when you may be having a bad day.
Have fun! Good luck, like the first answer on here says, just be yourself! You sound like you are a nice young man, she may be a lucky lady to have your attentions! The most important thing that needs to be said is, "Ain't love grand!?"
If you have the $$, take her to a nice place for dinner, where the two of you can share a quiet table, good food and each other's company. It will also give you a chance to show her how nice you look when you "clean up", and I think all ladies like a well groomed, man who smells nice. I cannot imagine that dating is exactly inexpensive now. When I was young we could all go to the drive in movie in the same car for $4 and we could bring all the snacks and sodas we wanted from home because nobody wanted to go pay the 25 cents for a bag of popcorn or 10 cents for a soda! (My God now you know how old I am! Ok, we are talking about you...) I would try to maybe try to arrange something like a picnic, if there is a nice park near your home. You don't have to be too fancy, you can buy small insulated coolers and bring some sandwiches or maybe just some things like snacks, or fresh clean fruits and veggies, and some cheese sticks and some bottled green tea, water or juices or something that you know she likes. Spend some time sitting in the shade of a tree, and talk to each other. Listen to her, and I think you can get some clues about things she likes to do. I think you will be just fine!
2006-06-12 01:41:12
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answered by ruthie_msw 4
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If love lives, gossip or fashion is all she would want to talk about, don't bother--ignore your hormones. However, if she is an intelligent person, she will want to know more about you--at least at first--while giving clues about her interests. Sorry, there is no guaranteed topic to attract all women.
2006-06-12 00:17:30
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answered by overtheline 2
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Just like go up to her after class (assuming that you go to some type of class with her) and ask her if she got the home work and say that you trust that she got the right thing down cuz you werent listening (its a start)(schools out though). Or if you see her in the store by like the candy or something and just go up and start looking around and them just ramdonly say (before she leaves) like which one do you recomend or which ones your favortie...even if you dont like it still buy it cuz its the one she like. or sence you said you havent met her. just talk to her dude, its not that hard. you are making this way harder than it has to be.please if my boyfriend hadnt come up to me and just started talking we would have never been together in the first place. take things slow start off simple remember you dont want to scare the girl off. start off simple then as you get to know her better ask her to the movies or just out to get ice cream. then as things get futher along tell her how you feel. then see where it goes form there. please its not that hard just take a deep breath and the next time you see her just go up and introduce youself. everytime i see my bf i melt, and everytime he touches my hair or my hand or gives me a hug i feel as im in heaven too. just rtust me and take that one little baby step. kids dont learn to walk in one day but they do take baby step and so can you. hope i helped. ;)
2006-06-12 00:15:59
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answered by janejane. 1
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You can't have a list of themes to talk about...be spontaneous! You can talk about your dreams, your passions, your hobbies...everything you're interested in...just don't speak too much about the same thing...Learn how to listen to her...cause if you really love a girl you got to know her deep inside, hear her thoughts, see her dreams...be there for her...
2006-06-12 00:01:37
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answered by Anonymous
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Well a fool can see your in love. Your first true love always make you feel like you got butterflys in your stomach... **** i still got mine and actually he's sleeping. just tell her you love her. have fun peace
2006-06-12 00:01:33
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answered by crazy 1
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when you find your soulmate like it sound to me you did its not goig to matter what you talk about cause all you hear is her voice and not her words she could say somthing like i want to poop in your hand and to us it sounds nasty to you its beautiful cause you love her and if she loves you the same way its on you have the ultimate relationship
2006-06-12 00:07:30
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answered by mell14716 3
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just be yourself but dont be so in ahhh just have fun and things will fall as they should
2006-06-12 00:03:18
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answered by keli2829 2
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Lovestory of your grannies will do...
2006-06-11 23:59:31
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answered by sweetslashy 2
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