My bf and i had to go for testing HIV.But whenever i brought the issue up,he said he was not ready& that am too impatient.
So i waited for 7months,but still he is not ready& says am impatient.When i asked him whether he is terrified,he says he is not.So he started lying to me,saying he will test next week.When time came he postponed to next month.I got fed up.
One day i got courage and asked him to be straight wit me,to tell me if he was infected,&that i will understand.But he said he was so sure he was not infected,& that he had gotten tested last year.When i asked for his results,he said his mum had them in his village,(its far from the city).
A few weeks back i decided to break up with him.Coz it looked like he was going to take forever to make up his mind.He made me look and feel stupid.
Now he is coming back to me,but with no hope of testing.l lost his feelings,coz i was badly hurt.He says am unfair to him.WHAT CAN I DO TO GET RID OF HIM,totally&completely.
2006-06-11 23:13:33 · 3 answers · asked by qn beda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you go test yourself if you are thinking you might have HIV. And after that: do not have unprotected sex - with anyone.
2006-06-11 23:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Tones 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never take him back if he wont get tested moreover u dont have feelings for him anymore so just tell him u've been badly hurt by his lies and that u really need a long time to be alone and that u r not ready for a relationship yet.
2006-06-12 06:19:58 · answer #2 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE REST NOW
2006-06-12 06:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋