girls i feel inferiority complex. boys dont talk to me they neglect me coz of that. i cant consentrate on my work i feel like doing sucide. i curse myself 4 that what should i do i m really alone pls help me
2006-06-11 22:46:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Your complexion is not important at all. Some black women are much more beautiful than the white. What you lack is not beauty but self confidence. Try to think about all the positive things you've got ( not that the colour of skin is negative). Please note that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Most guys I know care more about someone's personality rather than their looks.
If you are not happy with one of your features try a little make up. Make up can do wonders. Just don't let it be an obsession.
Take care
2006-06-12 00:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sara 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi Miss lovely
Don't be crazy. Believe in things which r permanent in nature. The outlook what u r talking about is not permanent. Beauty is not the outer look. Beauty in inner heart of kind and loving to other. The best thing u can do is u love yourself first. first remove from your mind that u r black.
My dear god always give a bad at the same time give a very great thing to u so try to identify that and develop that. Don't bother about the stupid boys who run for outer look and even your stupid friends who r mean about the colour. Iam sure u get a guy who loves u from his heart and cares u very much. Wait for him. Till then don't worry. Just concentrate on your studies and forget that u r black.
And don't ever think of suicide. This is done by cowards. I feel u r not of that kind. Dare to live. Don't sacrifice your life for silly things. Life is so precious use it by helping others.
2006-06-12 06:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by Radha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Mexican American and I am very dark also. I used to feel like I was too dark and ugly also. But then I started to look deep inside myself. Instead, of looking on the outside. Black is Beautiful. And if boys won't talk to you then screw them. You don't need them. You need yourself and God. The perfect person will come along. Also, if you wear lighter makeup it looks better. Always wear nudes and clear lip gloss. Lighten your hair a little bit. I love my color now. Think of it this way, Some people pay to get tanned. We don't have too. We are naturally tanned all year round! Good luck.
2006-06-12 05:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by mamasita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMMMM damn u think so gal !. Every woman is Beautifullllll.
Dont think i'm just sayin it 4 sayin sake but trust me. I know its difficult to make up ur mind but why the hell do u want 2 talk 2 boys who like gals with only looks.
Dont harm urself by these thinkings just see who u are.
And hadnt God created white and BROWN (THE EXACT COLOUR) there would be monotony.
U UNDERSTAND what i mean . Variety is the spice of life.
ARENT dark skinned married , dont they make beautiful couples,
Look at Naomi Campbell, Halle Berry and there are lots of them gal.
Next time a boy says ur brown i dont wanna be with u
say it round a way that ur fair it hate u........
bye gal.
2006-06-12 05:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by nik i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Black is the king of all colours so you should be proud to be blessed with such colour. Never let yourself down. There are countless blacks living on earth and they are happy the way they have been created by the God. Life is precious gift of God and you have no rights to spoil it. Never thought of committing suicide and it is also a great sin. Live life with strong will and you will succeed in your life.
2006-06-12 06:16:23 · answer #5 · answered by Kunwar Singh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be tough with you, but you must have a better reason to hate yourself, some people still care about what kind of person you are. I do think any one talking to you because of the color of your skin is someone only interested in that skin & nothing else.
You choose dear friend.
2006-06-12 05:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by I Wanna Know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your skin color has nothing to do with this. You have low self esteem. Those guys are just creeps. You were born with your skin color, and you can't change it. Why should you want to.?
Get same professional help. Suicide is never the answer. It just makes you dead, and I think you want to stay alive. There are counselors who will charge on your ability to pay, and there's always people who will talk to you by telephone. e-mail me if you want to talk.
2006-06-12 06:06:37 · answer #7 · answered by hollyltstarfleet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-12 06:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by mahaveer76_cbe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have NO idea how much we like black skin! you are very beautiful you just dont know it, Trust me , everybody is trying to get tanned and everything just so their skin would be darker. Im black but im still trying to get darker cause i dont like being brown, i wanna be black
2006-06-12 05:51:43 · answer #9 · answered by kill bill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional help
2006-06-12 05:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by barbara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋