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My boyfriend is very good to me. I know he loves me and I think he would never cheat on me. However, I usually catch him looking at other women, and this makes me very jealous. I first thought it was only my imagination, but then I asked him and he said "Yes, I like looking at pretty girls. But it is nothing sexual, it is just that I like it". But I think if he is in love with me he shouldn't enjoy looking at other girls, even if it is "not sexual"! I find it disrespectful towards me. Please help!! What would you do in my place?

2006-06-11 22:14:06 · 36 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

36 answers

Worry when he starts looking at guys.

2006-06-12 00:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Norman Bates 4 · 1 1

you sound secure with this guy and if he treats you good and you know that he loves you you said he will never cheat on you that is good,i dont think there is anything wrong with looking at other people because they are attractive but how does he look at these woman to make you so jelous?i would let him know how you feel about it and i do think it is disrespectful towards you,would he want you looking at other men enough to make you notice just try not to let this become a big issue you dont want it to effect what is good in your relationship with him now,i dont know though i would probably point it out when he does it because it would tend to piss me off that is just me though so good luck with your guy you really have something special and i just wouldnt worry now if he starts touching then kick his a......... lol

2006-06-11 22:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by readyhead42@yahoo.com 4 · 0 0

My fiance has never looked at other women (or men), he doesn't understand it when other men do and gets very jealous when catching me looking at other guys. I'd be a little wary but if there's real love and trust in the relationship and believes that you're much prettier than all of them, there shouldn't be any problems.

2006-06-11 22:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jex G 1 · 1 0

There is nothing unusual about this love. All men do it, it is part of their genetic make up!! As long as it is within reason (i.e., that he is not touching them on the street or going up to them and staring in their face) then it is normal and ok. Relax and be cool and confident and remember that he is with you because he wants to be! The next time he does it - just chill and walk with your head high and smile and know that some other guy could be admiring you!!

2006-06-11 22:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by Sasha 3 · 1 0

You're kidding right??? Even though he is in love with you, he should go blind???

I'm sure that women in love look at other men... If you don't, then you need to...

We all enjoy looking at attractive people... And sometimes it is nice to have little fantasies about these people...

If you want your boyfriend and any other man to look only your way, then wear something slinky and sexy... Go out without any underwear and only tell your boyfriend when you are out... I can guarantee you that he will do one or several things...

1) Turn you around and march you home to get changed - in which case you point out that you are a sexy woman who feels she needs to be checked out the way he checks out other girls...

2) Get such a horn on that he turns you right around and you don't get out of the bedroom for a solid weekend!!!

3) Be as proud as a peacock that he has this stunning lady on his arm for everyone else to lust after...

Go with it... Don't get jealous, get even...

2006-06-11 22:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 3 0

Yes

2006-06-11 22:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0 0

Absolutely normal, Jenny. It's what guys do. And unless you're seriously concerned that he might be straying, it's really nothing to get worried about. But if you start getting heavy about it, you risk setting up resentments that could damage your relationship. Far better to treat it as something lighthearted - maybe even join in: "Yes, she's stunning, isn't she?"

And, be honest - even when you're out with your b/f, have you never caught yourself glancing admiringly at a hunky guy?

2006-06-11 22:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

I am afraid you will never stop him looking so you will have to accept it and trust him. He is only acting normally for a young man and he will change with time, which will reduce the impact that a pretty girl has on him but still not stop him looking.

2006-06-11 22:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by huge001 3 · 0 1

It is obviously normal. Bcause he doesnt hide from u while watching other gals. He is honest wth u. It is just Normal.
Or else if u r so jealous and insecured then make urself like a woman he loves to see then he will see u only.

2006-06-12 02:28:12 · answer #9 · answered by in_searchof_truefriends 3 · 0 1

girl.. they're guys .. what do you expect?!!!!!!! you should probably not make such a big deal outta this thing.. but make it known to him that you dont like it and feel disrespectful..... make a firm point abt the respect part.. and some guys even take pride in making their girlfriends jealous coz it gives them a feeling of pride and a feeling of being wanted..

2006-06-11 22:26:22 · answer #10 · answered by quantumfunster 1 · 1 0

Totally normal everyones eyes stray from time to time we are only human after all.. Don't let it worry you because at the end of the day it's you that he goes home with.

2006-06-11 22:25:42 · answer #11 · answered by BOO 5 · 0 0

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