I like a girl and I am sure she like me, too. But I don't want to make the final move yet, I don't want to kiss her yet, because I have some problems to deal with right now; and I want to start this relashionship as relaxed as I can. But I don't know if she won't lose her interest in me if she waits to much. I want to ask the girls how much time are they - in theyr experience - willing to spend with a guy who doesn't make the final move (kiss) until they lose interest.
2006-06-11 21:02:04 · 6 answers · asked by ti man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some girls lose interest easy, b ut if the girl really likes you I wouldn't worry about it.
2006-06-11 21:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to become more comfortable. Don't be afraid she's only a girl.
I can't stand to be in a relationship with no meaning. If she was wasting my time by playing the pretend love game I wouldn't be interested in her.
Girls that expect you to make the move can be a bad deal. They are usually insecure in their ability to love you right. That means the two of you don't fully have trust in one another.
I would look for a more mature woman( one that knows herself and isn't insecure)if I were you.
2006-06-11 21:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by ahauntedhistory 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The final move is not kissing... kissing her would just let her know you like her. Don't maker her wait. I hate waiting and I'm sure so do many more. Besides, knowing she's by your side would give you motive to fix your problems and get it over with!!
2006-06-11 21:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by gogosh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how much you really like the guy. but in saying that, i wouldn't wait too long. if a guy took his time in letting me know he was interested, i would think he had lost interest and not waste my time anymore. i think a guy would do the same.
why don't you tell her that you would like to start something but explain to her you have some issues now. she will appreciate your honesty and will be more willing to wait if she know's something will happen.
again, she won't wait forever so don't keep her waiting too long.
2006-06-11 21:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is true that if you wait too long girls loose intrest but to how long befor an individual girl loses intrest depends solely on her,some can wait for months and some weeks
2006-06-11 21:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by boomkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if the girl really likes u i think she would wait as long as u make ur move~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-11 21:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by fairy girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋