parents reject him jst coz he is not good looking we love each other alot there is no other reason what should i do
2006-06-11 21:00:30 · 18 answers · asked by hot chilly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
trust me. they are rejecting him for more then that. and IF this was the only reason..if you're underage you have to leave him b/c the bible says "honor your mother and father so your days will be long upon this earth".
2006-06-11 21:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should convince ur parents that looks are never a matter when it comes to love & marriage.I can tell 1 solid ex. of m' friend who preferred g.lkng. guys 4 marriage.Now, after 1 yr. they are going 4 a divorce.The guy turned out to b good 4 nothing.It's always good 4 u find a guy,less g.lkng. than u.U cn save urself from the 'inf.complex'.Here's wishing u luck!! May ur wish cm true!
2006-06-12 04:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by lucy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be emotionel....Ur parents can never think bad for you....& if u are damn sure that the person u want to marry is good for u as a partner...talk 2 ur mother in loneliness...& ask her if she is rejecting him only coz he is not good looking...I am sure, she will guide u right...
Trust her or if u have more understanding with ur father, ask him!!!
Take care & be careful as these decisions are for lifetime...
Thanks,
Sumiya.
2006-06-12 06:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by Unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know one have to respect mother and father. but they are also human beings and can be wrong sometimes. Tell them if you married a man with good looks, and your marriage faile then what do they do? looks are there today and fade away tommorow. contact them indirectly through someone close to you and them (aunt, uncle, cousin, friend, family friend, etc. ) tell them to convince your mom and dad. some times there are chances that our parent do not believe what we say but instantly believe on what others say. try out this trick, who knows it will work. best luck lady.
2006-06-12 05:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by magnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all r u eligeble to get married. then if u like that guy, then why dont u convince your parants. cool mindedly. but even after they don't agree with you then listen to ur parents. because teenage love is just like a puppy love, it wares down as the time flys by.
2006-06-12 04:05:32 · answer #5 · answered by dani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are an adult do what you think is best. If you love an ugly guy so what? The question should be does he fullfill you? Do you look at him and feel ashamed of the way he looks? What are your priorities?
2006-06-12 04:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by James H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the one who's getting her wagon hitched to the mule, not your parents. Do whatever you think is right but don't rush things just because of blind love. Think it over closely.
2006-06-12 04:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, if your parents don't like him becuase he isn't hott then they are crazy i often say that the best gifts come in the ugliest wrapper! don't let them bug you, tell your (step-) dad that well, you can get a hott guy and what if he hits you? is that ok just because he is hott? i don't think so there are way more important things than looks
2006-06-12 04:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by icanansweryourquestions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not a reason to reject someone, surely your parents want to see you happy.
give them time they will come around if you guys are serious about eachother
2006-06-12 04:03:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if YOU are happy and he treats you good hang on to it with all you got because there are VERY FEW good guys out there and thats coming from a guy hope this helps
2006-06-12 04:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋